Be honest, what clues can women look for in a guy that shows he’s a player?
What clues can we look for that show a guy is into one girl only?
The truth and only the truth! Please!
2007-05-31 12:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by THe T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st clue for a player
-calls you all the time but suddently stops.
-speeds things up
-whants you to do things for him
-He gets mad if you dispute his opinion.
-Does not lisen or give you advice on your life.
clues for a non-player
-is there for you.
-takes things slow if he realy cares
-respects who you are and values it.
-spends money on you withough metioning it more that 2 times.
2007-05-31 12:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.comp 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have two major player friends and they are totally obvious about it. How do girls not see these guys for what they are?
But one of my player friends had a girlfriend who called me up and asked if he had ever cheated on her.....She knew him as a roommate and saw that he was a player back then. I was amazed that she would even ask. She was dating him when he was still on his 3rd marriage. He started cheating on her the first week they started dating, when he was infatuated with her, so he was cheating on both her and his wife.
So maybe you girls have some kind of blind spot.
Here are some signs, but I'm amazed that you could meet a player and not know it the second you meet him. You really need to observe these guys more closely, if he seems like a player....he is.
Both my player friends are always flirting with women. That is kind of the only way they relate to females. They can't turn it off and will flirt with old women and 5 year old girls.
They are pretty fast and loose with money. They buy impulsively, live large and above their means and are on the verge of bankruptcy.
One thing to ask yourself when you meet a guy is if this guy is so slick and talks to women so easily, why is he single? My good guy friends who are still single kind of suck at talking to attractive women.
2007-05-31 13:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real men don't play around. Don't get me wrong, when we are single, we scout around, looking for a good opportunity.
When we decide she is the one, there is never any doubt. A real man will take the well being of his woman extremely serious.
A good example my family taught me. If my wife did not know how to cook. It is my responsibility to make sure the family does not go hungry. So, he can teach her how to cook, take on the cooking responsibilities himself, or hire someone to do the cooking for the family.
When a man takes that responsibility to heart, there is no such thing as playing around.
2007-05-31 13:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by khanofali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry ive never been a "player" i assume you mean someone who dates more than one lady at a time or only dates ladies for sex???
the guy will be faithful affectionate wants to spend as much time as possible with the lady has no secrets and does not lie --- that is part of my definition of someone into a lady
2007-05-31 13:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for question number two...watch the movie "you got mail" the way Tom Hanks treats Meg Ryan is a real man. It does happen in real life.
for question number one...He is very selfish.... there is one thing on his mind (sex) all his motives are to get him what he wants and once achieved your just another girl played.
2007-05-31 13:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, baby doll, baby! Would I lie to you? I mean would I? Players all wear plaid coats, that's how you tell. Do I have on a plaid coat? No! I ain't no player babydoll. Trust me. Saturday?
2007-05-31 13:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he watches rap videos and/or dresses like a moron.
2007-05-31 12:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A cane, or is that a Pimp?
2007-05-31 12:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by uiop b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stupid
2007-05-31 12:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋