I mean i never cry, but like some points in a very touching moment i get kinda teary eyed, i mean sometimes more than girls, but i dont shed one!!!
And i also like cute things like puppies and babies. And im also into snuggling and fashion.
I mean im not gay and i love girls, but like so many aspects of me are feminish, i mean questionably feminish, i feel like im not man enough, i thought there was a testorone imbalance or something but i have hair everywhere and everything is normally man, but some habits, like taking long showers and stuff are so feminish, and its weirding me out.
What are your take on this?
2007-05-31 12:45:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think someone raised you to be a wonderful , sensitive human being. You continue being your self and some girl will be lucky to find someone like you.
2007-05-31 12:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by emtd65 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I used to be like you (still sorta am). Im verry much a man but i do harbor some weird borderline gay habits. Stop trying to conform to steriotypes because someone told you to. Become a person of your own design and keep with it.
The whole concept of manlyness is deciving. Most people who act manly & parade their manlyness are little girls inside. Its often the ones that arnt trying to act it that are manly.
2007-05-31 12:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, gee - your coronary heart is able to be touched, you experience drawn in direction of, and protecting of, youthful, helpless issues, you like affection and want to be nicely-groomed. Nope, does not sound effeminate to me. verify out the opposite, in accordance on your scale, a guy isn't a "genuine guy" until he's: > no longer able to experience or show emotion > does not like or experience protecting in direction of susceptible little toddlers or animals > does not get exhilaration from touch > Is poorly dressed > Is lax approximately hygiene. Gee, this stinky, ragged, chilly person you envision does not sound manly to me in any respect. sounds like a psychotic in risky want of therapy. do no longer beat your self up for being heat-hearted and liking to gown nicely. the 1st is a great trait in men or women human beings, and the 2nd in basic terms a private characteristic. mutually as i'm flattered which you think of being worrying, affectionate, and sparkling are all woman features (we regularly get tarred with destructive stereotypes), in actuality, those are all features that upright, honorable, manly men could have, too.
2016-11-24 20:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you may be borderline gay. All the things you mention are too feminine for you to be considered a real man. We drink beer, fart, and don't go to sappy movies and cry like school girls. Just my opinion.
2007-05-31 12:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by medic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is okay to be sentimental during movies - I like that in guys. It means they are not afraid to be sensitive - I think it is good that you have sort of a feminine side. It is very attractive. You could also be a metrosexual, which is not a bad thing. You take care of yourself (ex. of taking long showers) and it is a good thing. Do not be ashamed of who you are.
2007-05-31 12:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by trueimage_libra09 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It takes a real man to be comfortable enough with his own masculinity to be able to show real emotion. Most girls find that quality very attractive and adoring. That shows a real level of maturity. There is nothing wrong with you.
2007-05-31 12:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
as long as your not getting all pansy-*** in like a movie that your chick isn't crying in. the tear-jerkers should be kept out of sight/reach of your girl...because she will want to watch them with you. i don't think there is anything wrong with getting a little emotional every once in a while...but not like all the time.
p.s. my boyfriend takes an hour long shower. he is far from pansy..but he enjoys taking showers.
2007-05-31 12:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
only in certain movies because yea everyone can relate to some of the sad movies so thats why you get watery eyed
2007-05-31 12:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by crazysk8tr15 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that is SO CUTE!!!! awww i think guys are hot when they get all sad when they watch a sad movie. it shows that guys are vulnerable and that makes girl want to hug and kiss them more! i know some girls prefer the manly guuys but i myself like the cute and sensitive guys! ^^ :)
2007-05-31 12:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by word. 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i absolutely luv guys tha tarent afraid 2 show emotion it is so adorable
is that the kind of answer u want if not email me off my profile
2007-05-31 12:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by boy troubled 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋