it seems so difficult to find a girl, is it even worth it?

Question

1)i have no way of really meeting people, im a freshman in college and every one already has a good group of friends that they will probably have their whole 4 years. and its awkward when you no friends and dont any anybody to meet any one new

2) if you have no friends or nobody you even know its hard to go to parties or be introduced to girls

3) it seems like every girl has a boyfriend anyway and is unavailable.

4) ive never even had a girlfriend so even if by some crazy chance i was able to find a girl i probably wouldnt know what to do and how to make her happy.

forget girlfriends it seems impossible to even find a date. I really like girls A LOT (not even just a attraction sexual thing, i think they are really fun most of the time) and i just end up feeling sad and lonely. is it even worth it to hope to find a girl or should i just give up and live a life of celibacy to avoid disappointment. I realize grades are most important but i do have a 3.89 gpa its not much of a worry

Answer 1

Yahoo personals is where I found my wife.

Took several dates with a few women to find her, but they are out there. Watch out for the gold diggers and mental freaks.

And yes, it is worth it.

Answer 2

Don't push yourself in finding some friends they'll come soon somewhere down the line and as well as someone special to you "you can't find love it finds you" and making her happy just be yourself. You don't have to beat yourself up over this you'll get through it for the longest I was lonely and sad too until my husband came along. I was only sad because everyone else had someone and I had no1 but 1 of these days you'll find that special girl and you'll be so happy you did. I know that so many people have probably told you this but its true you will find some1 beyond your wildest dreams and every day as you wake up she'll be there to blow your mind by just simply loving you for who you are.

Answer 3

Dude: my advice is to get out there, join some extra curricular clubs or teams, make friends, talk a little more to your classmates, this will probably take care of #1 & 2. Just make note, friend making, let alone girlfriend making, takes time, sometimes even months, and there are some bad people out there, do not let them discourage you.

As for #3, relationships can be pretty fluid, sometimes they are so rock solid they will never let go, sometimes people change relationships as often as they brush their teeth. keep trying, you will find someone.

#4, the part that works best for me while having a relationship with a girl is to find someone who has common ground, say if you like skiing, find someone else who likes skiing. Talk to them, so they get to know your personality better, and it never hurts to be happy about yourself, keep yourself smelling fresh. Hope this helps you out!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

forget about your grades. Put them down a couple notch on your priorities. Trust me...making social connections is way more important than academics. Why?

1. happiness. If you were happy being alone, then you wouldnt have posted this question.

2. the real world is about who you know my friend. NOT what you know... is all about hook ups. Watch.

3. college is about exploring. So do it. Get uncomfortable. Get rejected get hurt. But also expect to get rewarded. Go out and talk to EVERYBODY. You'll be surprised. Be nice and be friendly.

Answer 6

for 4- don't worry about it. it's not about knowing how to be a good boyfriend, it's about knowing the other person and being a good friend to them. trust me it'll come naturally.

and on how to meet girls, get a job in a restaurant. i swear you'll meet people so quick. it's like an automatic group of friends.

Answer 7

Man, You'll not alone.

I'm going through the same thing and i don't like it.

Yes, it worth it because I'm not giving uo this easy.

I may not find her as fast as I would like

But i know this, I'm one day closer to finding her!!!

I want you to keep believing and keeo telling yourself every morning, and night that you are one day closer to finding your woman.