What are ways to spice up your sex life with out inviting someone else into it? Please dont be gross, I just want to know what things a couple who has been together for 5years do to keep things fun and exciting?
2007-05-31 10:05:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been married for 5 years as well and I understand. What we do sometimes is role play. My wife sometimes dresses up in a cheerleader outfit and puts her hair in pony or pig tails and does a dirty talk cheer & dance for me. Or we'll pretend that shes a prostitute wearing some damn sexy horny outfit and I'm her John and go from there. Basically just pretend role play and be creative as possible. Leave nothing to the imagination. Millions of things you and your hubby can do. Its awesome.
You could also bring toys into the bedroom. If you're not sure what to get, I recommend you both go into an adult bookstore and browse until you do find something...hell, even pick up a video or two as well.
Put on sexy music during your love making sessions.(something like Donna Summer's "Love to Love You")
Talking dirty. Be as vulgar and filthy as possible. That too works wonders for me.
2007-05-31 10:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Ed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I have been married for the same time as you have. and soemetimes you have to do things like role playing. maybe bring some toys or even rent a hotel room and get away from the enviroment you always have sex in. Also try other things I dont know if you are into anal sex but it is another way of enjoying it and if he knows how to do it. then you will find more pleasure than you ever imagine. At least that is what my wife and other people have told me. So there I hope I was of some help. Lingerie is also great.
2007-05-31 10:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been together for 7 years and we have got bored from time to time. Try asking him about his fantasies and acting them out or telling him yours and doing the same. Sometimes the best way to get the spice back in the bedroom is to take it out. Try other rooms in the house. Or if you are real adventurous, outdoors or the car can be fun too. Just use you imagination.
2007-05-31 10:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by skylo0406 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, without all the usual, there is the simple stuff, such as dimming the lights, lighting candles, having a sweet smell in the room (flowers, scents, candles), soft music, wear something sexy, play roles; for a little more adventure, get those kinds of magazines or movies.
Use your imagination and think what you each like.
2007-05-31 10:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you know there are highs and lows in relationships. A night away from the normal helps. Maybe a Jacuzzi suite, lots of soap, water, fellatio, men LOVE IT!!!!!! he can return the favor. Porn is good too if it doesn't bother you. They also like to go out and have dinner and a drink and tell him you aren't wearing underwear. He will freak.
2007-05-31 10:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by stefani h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex toys.... lotions... oils... , role playing....buy a book about sexual positions and take turns picking a new one to try out.... hummm... maybe I'll talk to my other half about this too... sounds fun... LOL
2007-05-31 10:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down on him when he is least expecting it. As has been said lotions oils talk dirty while banging make up stories while banging. Try things you have never tried before
2007-05-31 10:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Mark S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try slik gloves on differnt places
hot oil rub
whipp cream
2007-05-31 10:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
costumes, whips, doggy style, and vibrating condoms
2007-05-31 10:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by morgan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Watch some pornos in bed...
2007-05-31 10:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Gaius Caligula 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋