Please answer the question as asked. Does anyone HOPE that their child will be gay?

Question

Not that "I only want them to be happy" stuff. We all want our kids to be happy and healthy. Stick to the question. Do you wish it for them? Do you hope for it?

Answer 1

Thank you Barry. Notice the lack of substance to the answers. Notice the common theme; "as long as they're happy".
That sure contradicts the argument: "Who in their right mind would WANT to be born like this?"

No, I don't think anbody in their right mind WOULD want a child to be born homosexual.
Who would WISH that a child be born with the inner struggle of woman in a mans body? or visa versa? Or the struggle of looking like a man, but wanting to act like a woman?

Answer 2

there is no such thing as being born gay. God only created two genders male and female. and it would be unbecoming to say that God somehow made a mistake and created a man in a woman's body or a woman in a man's body. unlike His creation who have shortcomings and mistakes, God is perfect.
He created us all from Adam and Eve (male and female). And it is well known that the act of sex is designed to be between a male and a female. This has nothing to do with religion because it is a scientific fact. The man was created with a specific organ that connects with an organ in the woman. Then at the climax of sex he emits a liquid which fertilizes the egg which is found in the woman's organ which the male has entered. Then a baby is created from this fertilized egg. This process of conception is impossible to occur between a male and another male or between a female and female. Therefore the act was meant to be between a man and woman. Consequentially, this act is forbidden in Islam.

God says about the people of Sodom and Gomorrah in the time of Prophet Lot-


"And we sent Lot and he said to his people 'Do you approach such an immorality that no one has done before you?' Indeed you approach men with desire instead of women. Truly you are a transgressing people."(Qur'an 7:80-81)
how would mankind multiply and survive if homosexuality is a normal part of human beings?
there is a big difference of opinion amongst scholars of genetics about whether there is a "gay gene" -- its all theory nothing that is accurate or proven yet. the real reason why we see a big surge of gay openness and the apparent obligation to accept it is because of their organized political effort to loby for the democartic party in the United States.
the answer to you question is NO no one whould hope for their child to be gay cause its not normal. if it was genetic, it is not like having blue eyes like your father or having brown hair like your mother, it is a defect like all other defects or deformations but there are many factors that show that gays are mostly molestaed or abused when they are young or they were missing one of the parents in their childhood or they are a boy with many sisters or a sister with many brothers. thus proving that homosexuality is mostly a destortion in the concept of sexuality from an early age from abnormal sociological factors.

Answer 3

I don't hope for anything regarding my kids' orientation. Either way. Whatever floats their boat - I want them happy.

I do have a preference, though, for two reasons:
1) Society makes it hard on gay people. They would struggle more.
2) Grandchildren are cool.

But that's as far as it goes. If either of them brings a same-sex friend/partner/spouse to my house, I will welcome the person that gives love and happiness to my child. With open arms.

Answer 4

Why are you asking such a question and using children? You must be one twisted sick, depraved pervert. To make what type of moronic point? Are you that low of little human being? It sounds like you are and you are a disgusting person with no real morals or character.

FYI I would love and support my child no matter what because I truly offer my child unconditional love and my child knows this and doesn't have to guess about it or look to it from invisible sources.

Answer 5

As a member of the LGBT community, I'm grateful to say that I don't have to raise any children in this horrifying world of hatred, hypocrisy, and hardship. The drugs, pressures on children over idiotic versions of "education", etc. make me glad that I grew up when I did, however if I DID have kids, I wouldn't worry one way or another... they'd have been who they might have been and loved either way.

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Answer 6

NO. Nor do I HOPE that the child be heterosexual.

As with wishing for a boy or a girl, I wished for neither. Same with sexual orientation. It does not concern me. I didn't wish the child to be gay or heterosexual.

Answer 7

The wishes and hopes I have for my children have nothing to do with their sexual orientation. I do not wish for my child to be gay. I also do not wish for my child to be straight.

I do wish and hope that he gets a good job after he gets outr of college.

Answer 8

No, the "I only want them to be happy" stuff is the most important thing of all ... if I were to have children (never going to happen) the only things I would consider important would be their health and happiness, whether they were heterosexual or homosexual.

This is a rather silly question.
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Answer 9

It's a non issue to me. That's like asking if you hope your child ends up being a redhead. Who cares?

Answer 10

In this hostile world? no.

but that's not a statment about homosexuality.

and ideally all a parent SHOULD hope for their child is their happiness, not that they be a specific sexual orientation, or religion, or political leaning, or occupation.