i am wit a girl who i have been with for 3 years. in those three years i loved and cared for her. i did however make some mistakes. the biggest, taking her for granted. not too long ago she meant another guy and to my suprise liked (i think) him very much. but i asked her to choose, me or this guy she knows for one month. now we are together but i dunno if she really wants to be wit me. she says she doesnt love me like she used to. she is not the same girl. i still love her tho. i just dunno if i shld let her go and be wit someone else. but i want her to be wit me. is it too late to fix my mistakes? did i screw it all up? i want her to be the same girl i knew a long time ago. sweet, jealous, loving, caring girl who called me 20 times a day. now she doesnt answer my calls. doesnt care what i do. doesnt seem to care what i do for her. i am considering letting go of my dreams. for this is the 2nd time i loved a girl and gave her everything and she broke my heart. ty for reading.
2007-05-31 09:20:09 · 10 answers · asked by Dick 2 in Cars & Transportation ➔ Buying & Selling
Wow...well...here you go opinions on relationships are tough because no one is in your sutiation but you seem to want 2 cents so here is mine>>>
*You took her for granted
*She turned to someone else who "appreciated" her
*You realized what you lost and gave her a choice
*3 Years is a long time and comfort is created she didn't want to lose that
*She is not going to go back to the way things were, because are you for real this time?? She is skeptical....is she going to fall right back in love to have you take her for granted again?? Sure, when someone messes up they will do anything in their power to try to make things better, but does it last....not usually. Once things "return to normal" the old personalities come back too.
*She is going to stay backed off until she knows it is for real....when will that be who knows????
*Right now she has power...she is receiving the attention and desire that she showed you for so long...she is taking YOU for granted.
*Break it off while you still can without it getting ugly. Be friends and see what happens. Relationships are work, but they cannot be forced. If not comfort and convenience will probably keep you together for a little while until it all goes up in a flame of deceit, untrust, and non-comunication. Chance of the love coming back in your present state...not good :-(
Hate to break it to you....but been there....I'm the girl
2007-05-31 09:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only twice so far? Hang in there- there will be more girls who you will love even more and who will break your heart even worse. Isn't love fun? Anyway, you can't get on with those experiences until you get over this one. I'd say let her go at this point- she'll either come crawling back (and call you 20x a day to make sure you're not cheating on her) or you'll find something else even better. Good luck!
2007-05-31 09:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by W. Coastal Eddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she may have felt that you kind of judged her or intruded her privacy. did you ever sit down with her and ask her if she liked him? It may not be to late but to me it sounds like shes only holding on because she cares for you. Sit her down and ask her where your relationship is going and if she still wants to be with you and is willing to give you the chance to make it right again. Find out what she wants from you. Ask her for the truth thats all you can do. And if thats the reason shes acting like this then learn from your mistakes.
2007-05-31 09:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude the best thing is to let go...it will not be easy and it will hurt for a long time...but it will be worse if u hold on to her for any longer...obviously she doesnt care...so why should u!...it sucks i've had something like this happen to me...u have to stay strong and just let go...u just have to grow some balls and take it like a man...thats the easiest way out
2007-05-31 09:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude u should let her go...sorry but im also a girl and i know how girls think i dont want to explain that much but just let her go shes not even worth trying to fix if she did or is doing this to u just move on man... im sorry i know u love her but u can do better
2007-05-31 09:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by meanjr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she does have a right to do it back to you if you took her for granted already, but how shes acting, i dont know, it might time to let go of it.
2007-05-31 09:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by DD; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u luv her but she doesnt luv u any more well if shes not happy with you eventualy ur not gonna be happy with her
you should let her go be4 ur misrable w/ her
ever hear that saying let it go if it comes back to u then its ment to be
but move on and if she comes back to you cause shes bored w/ her new guy
dont let her come back.
2007-05-31 09:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by adreana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Ferrari would make you feel better.
2007-05-31 09:26:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jay P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
uh... yes, a honda civic has good gas mileage.
2007-05-31 09:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her up-why drag yourself through that. you'll find somebody else.
2007-05-31 09:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋