Girl opinions only be honest, am i really unattractive?

Question

I havent had a girlfriend yet, ther ehave been times where i almost did but some guy steps in screws it all up. Yea and after looking in the mirror and stuff and not having a gf yet it makes me feel ugly. and i have a huge fear of being ugly especially hair loss :/

here are links to a few pictures of mine

http://s21.photobucket.com/albums/b264/Dragon24681011/?action=view¤t=AMBER-17.jpg

http://s21.photobucket.com/albums/b264/Dragon24681011/?action=view¤t=MindysPics233.jpg

Thank you, problem is there arent that many good clothes stores around here i personally like hottopic. but suggest some places if you like.

I know i have very long and thick hair, thing is i cannot get any of those fancy cuts because people cant cut at all around here. and it looks horrible when its short

Answer 1

Your not a bad-looking kid. Although it is hard to see what you look like through all that hair. Besides, if someone only wants you because of how you look, then they are not really worth being with.

Answer 2

First of all, why on earth would you be afraid of hair loss? You're a bit young to be worrying about that. Secondly, I think you're pretty cute - definitely not anywhere near ugly. Don't worry about the fact that you haven't had a girlfriend yet. I didn't date much when I was younger and that didn't stop me from finding some great guys when I got a bit older. I know it's not much consolation but you'll find someone and she'll be that much more special when it happens.

Answer 3

You really need to smile and trim you hair. you don't need to cut it all off, just trim the ends and condition if you keep it long. Otherwise you are pretty good looking. I'm not a big fan of you style of dress, but some chicks dig it. probably the ones that you like the most. Good Luck and have some confidence you will find a GF in no time.

Answer 4

My daughter just walked by and she thinks your cute. You happen to be her type and she has the prettiest face of any of her friends. She actually gets tired of hearing how pretty she is. Not having a girlfriend gives you time to focus on fun stuff and the best and most important thing in any relationship is this, friendship and trust. Try building friendships and you may be surprised at what could develop...

You are many years from hair loss and some women like it. My husband says that we are putting our son on Rogaine at 16 to prevent it so maybe you can try that.

Answer 5

First of all if you feel ugly you will be seen that way. checked out your photos and no your not ugly! are you trying to get a girlfriend with the same interests as you? Not judging, but your photo shows you may be punk. No you probably wont hook up with a girl who is a prep, but you also look young and should maybe try to meet girls at teen nights or through friends. sometimes the person you are ment to be with is someone you are already friends with. give it time, relationships while your young are mostly drama anyway. take the time to improve the way you feel about yourself and others will be attracked to that.

Answer 6

Dude, calm down, first of all you look very young so no need to worry about not having a gf yet. Secondly, from what I could see, you don't look ugly at all, however, both those pictures really didn't show your face. You don't need to worry about hair loss for another 30 years.

Answer 7

OK I don't think that look always matter, some guys are very attractive, but are clueless on how to be gentlemen. I think when the right girl comes along and acknowledges you for just being you, you will be happy than to know someone was just with you for your looks. rock on man and don't give up. Keep the hair natural no razor cuts.:)

Answer 8

You absolutly fine! the only reason you dont have a girlfriend is because you lack confidence in yourself, or you wouldn't be asking this question. As a girl, I say you have to love yourslef before you can ever love someone else. Besides, whats the rush to date? I didn't get a man until I was 19! I'm actually glad I didn't date in highschool. Dont worry about it, and dont change.

Answer 9

Your not unattractive!! Not everyone is into the same look. Some girls might not like the emo look thats all. Take your time and you'll find a girlfriend. But NO your not ugly at all. And you look young, so don't worry to much, just enjoy your youth, it passes fast!

Answer 10

Ok, honest opinion...I think you're an attractive guy, so ugly is out of the question. Who cares if you haven't had a girlfriend yet? Because your future wife will absolutley be overjoyed that you only had maybe one or two other gf's, so you saved yourself for her! She'll love that, I know I would!