What's a nice way to let someone that asks me for my number or asks me out know that I realy don't want to go out with him?
2007-05-31 08:01:52 · 12 answers · asked by Nea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You look them in the eye, open your mouth, and say, "Sorry, but no." There is no easier or better or nicer way to do it. That makes it clear and simple, which is better on the guy, as well as on you.
2007-05-31 08:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are persistent nowadays. You practically have to be married for them to leave you alone. Saying you're seeing someone does NOT work. Then they ask if they can just call on some friendship nonsense. Just tell them, thanks for the compliment but you would rather not give them your #. Then say bye and start walking before he comes up with a plan B. It's a jungle out there :)
2007-05-31 15:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by FeeFi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm into me right now and I don't want to waste your time.
I used to always get their # and call them once *67 before you dial there's so it's blocked leave a nice message or talk for a few mins. If they are nice call again, if thery're not you don't ever have to call again, that way when you see them o the street there's no you never called. Remember sleazy not so cute guys.... have friends!!!
2007-05-31 15:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by fbarkon 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just say "No, thank you" or "I'm sorry, no thank you" or "Thank you for the offer, but I don't think it's a good idea."
If he's a gentleman, he'll accept the refusal.
If he doesn't back off, then he's not a gentleman, and you don't need to keep showing courtesy to someone who doesn't show the same courtesy to you.
2007-05-31 15:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you really dotn wanna go out with them, then just tell them that your not interested. be streight and forward with them. i mean its not the end of the world for them. if you wanna be extra nice.
say: sorry your a really great person, but im just not interested right now.
oaky.
hope it works out fer ya. :]
2007-05-31 15:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by jamsk8freek 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they dont know you could say you already have a bf/gf or that you just got out of a big relationship and arent ready for another
2007-05-31 15:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by demonicfiredemon 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sorry not intrested. If that isnt enough be a ***** to him. Sometimes being nice gets you nowhere.
2007-05-31 15:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by wvdevilgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry I'm not interested, usually they get the hint or if their arseholes they'll make fun of you and put you down
2007-05-31 15:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by lil_play_boy_bunny 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him No.. it's the best way.. u don't want to give him chances? dont u?
2007-05-31 15:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by wflash23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm seeing someone
2007-05-31 15:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by ocean's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋