I have searched high and low for my true love, it never seems to happen I could meet this one person who will love me for me. Does true love realy exist??
Please please let me meet someone soon I feel so alone
2007-05-31 07:51:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love does exist, but it's not something that lands in your lap. You can't go fishing for it, changing the bait over and over again, experimenting with new pick-up lines. Hunting for it won't work.
Okay, this is going to sound really stupid, but it's 100% true: You'll never truly find real love unless you find joy in giving it away. First and foremost, true love is something that flows out...not in. What you want is to find someone you can trust enough to understand what it is you're giving him/her. Even if it doesn't come full circle, you still experience the fulfillment of giving love, but the real magic happens when two people want nothing more than to give love to one another. As in, want to give it more so than receive it.
Hope this helps.
2007-06-03 09:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It exists, but the harder you look, the less likely you'll find it. The reason is that when you are actively trying so hard to find "the one," you create problems for yourself. You create the "ideal" person in your head, and no human being can live up to that ideal. OR you start transferring onto someone ideal characteristics that simply do not exist in them, and end up with someone you THOUGHT was the ideal, but really was not. Worrying about "true love" and pining over the special someone you don't have is not a healthy way to go about it.
I can attest to true love's existence, though, because I have been happily married to the perfect woman for me the past seven years and counting. BUT... that is not really your problem. You obvious are suffering from loneliness, and are hanging your hat on an ideal that is not fair to you, or to any possible suitors out there. You need to redefine your own self, first, and learn to love who you are NOW before you start worrying about love. Enjoy being single. Enjoy being YOU. When you learn to do this, you will become more attractive to others, increasing the odds of finding that special someone. Then you should get out there, have some fun, and see what happens. If you are unable to do this, you should seriously consider talking to your doctor and getting a therapist. You do not have to feel alone, even if you are.
2007-05-31 07:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Things continuously difference in love. You can on no account maintain up the equal depth over the years with out utilizing a few ploys like purchase her unforeseen items now not for a birthday or vacation however only a shock. Take her to a posh situation to devour now and again. Bring flora or goodies for no precise social gathering. In different phrases now and again upload a little bit romance.
2016-09-05 17:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I were you, I'd stop looking because if you do know what true love is, then true love begins with you. It's so much easier to give true love than to actually search for it. Really, true love isn't as far as people say. True love isn't that hard to find if you start searching within yourself.
2007-06-01 07:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by musician2004@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know for a fact it does... even though my true love is not longer in this earthly relm... I have seen it.. If you look for it, it will never come... Just relax and wait he'll come
2007-05-31 07:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Megan N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it exists but you cant look for it, it will just find you
2007-06-01 19:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it do exist but its so complicated to find.simple so keep looking
2007-05-31 07:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope that it does coz i'm trying to find it as well :)
2007-05-31 07:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it doesn't ..so stop looking around for it.
2007-05-31 07:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by maverick h 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋