We were at her party; me and my bf (he was the only boy there)
were together and everyone knew it.
they tried to get us to kiss and stuff.
i had to leave early because i had a thing i couldn't miss.
and i found out that anna(the person who threw the party, AKA my ex best friend)
wanted to kiss him and kissed him once i left the party.
and we were still going out!
they all tried to keep it a secret from me but at least one true friends their told me.
AND because of anna my bf broke up with me.
im so pissed and sad!!
it's the worst day of my life!!
i've fallen into a deep depression
what do i do!?
2007-05-31 07:49:50 · 35 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick her A$$, then pay someone else to do it later
2007-05-31 07:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'm really sorry, thats awful. The only thing you can do to try to understand is to talk to your bf, ask him why he did that etc. tell him that it crushed you, is thhat what he wanted to do?
Really i guess the best you can do though is keep your head up, and move on. He was clearly an idiot to do something like that, and was the wrong person for you anyway. If thats all he cared for you, it was bound to end sometime soon anyway. Dont let his stupid **** get to you, keep your head up, and distract yourself with other things.
Be happy! Go outside and take a breath of fresh air. Go out with your friends and do something fun. But for gods sake, dont just sit around your house and think about it, thatll only make things so much worse.
Distract yourself, and you'll move on eventually. He's an idiot, and an object of the past.
Oh, and obviously drop anna. Shes not your friend, clearly. You have every reason in the world to be really really mad at her.
2007-05-31 07:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by toothPASTE 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did your bf broke up with you ? It's not even your fault. Besides your bf shouldn't be kissing back or let her kiss him in the first place. If your bf broke up with u because of her then probably he likes her. And if your bf respect you he should tell you what happen after the party. Its not the worst day of your life. Find a new bf, you deserve someone better and treat you right. Don't do anything, go with the flow and if your bf realize he's stupid to break up with you he will come back to you.
2007-05-31 08:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Vicky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she can't really be a friend to hurt you like that. A friend cares for you and is there for you, they don't sneak, lie or do things they know will hurt you. And if the guy kissed her back he is no better.Sounds like you need to find a new friend and boyfriend you can trust.It will get better don't be depressed,life will hand you some real let downs but you just have to get up brush of and show your a better person than them. Good luck.
2007-05-31 07:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by simple serenity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. No no no. Do NOT blame only Anna. Blame the boyfriend as well, HE'S the one in the relationship. He should be the main one to blame.
Be pissed at your 'friend', but your b/f is the one who cheated, even if it was just a kiss.
Just be glad you didn't go too far with the guy before you found out he was a cheating jerk.
2007-05-31 07:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend never tried to fight to keep away from her nor tell you to be truthful to you then he is just a waste of your time, and so was your friend. Stick with the girl that leaked the secret to you., at easlt shes honest. Another boy will come along and hopfully he will be more loyal than your ex.
Best of Luck. I hope you find someone better. <3
2007-05-31 07:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by flutesp 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, chalk it up to a lesson learned. Now you know that she was not a true friend and he was a lousy boyfriend. Trust me, life is too short to waste your time on people like that. It sounds like you still have some people around you who are "real" friends. Keep them and throw the rest away.
I would stay civil, especially if you are still in school with them, but I would never trust them again.
Good luck. All you need are one or two true friends to be happy.
2007-05-31 07:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by Should be Working! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
personally, i would liek kill this girl's reputaion. well im just liek that. let me just tell you this one thing: THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT! its ur "bf's" fault 4 being fake and kissing anna…and anna is a butt head [can i cuss on this thing?] 4 ruining your relationship with this guy. i wouldnt be too depressed because this guy you were dating was horrible. you should date one of his best friends that you are interested in, or you could try to get back together with this guy and do the same thing he did to you to him…with his best friendSSSS.
hope u feel better soon
2007-05-31 07:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by trololo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beh, he would have broken up with you eventually, it's better that you found out now rather than later.
Get rid of anna and remember the best revenge is living well and being happy.
2007-05-31 07:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by 006 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, if your boyfriend broke up with you because he kissed another girl, then your relationship wasn't that solid to begin with.
I'm sorry you are bummed and hurt, but give it time and you'll feel better. If all it took was a kiss to lure him from you, then you're better off without him.
Do realize there are better options out there...don't waste too much time being upset over someone who isn't worth your sorrow.
2007-05-31 07:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Have a SERIOUS talk with your EX best friend.
-and also, have a SERIOUS talk with your Ex bf too.
Their both a pile of trash.
Think about it:
Your best friend in the world knew you two were dating and basically lured him to her and attempted to draw him away from you.
-and your bf is trash too, im sorry. It takes two to kiss, and if he broke up with you because he kissed her, then he didnt care about you anyway darlin...
Get over him.
Get over her.
You dont need the both of them.
-you need to also thank your friend that told you about them kissing, because they are the true friend here. Really, thank her somehow.
2007-05-31 07:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by grjpbeatles2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋