If your in a sexual relationship with no strings attached... what kind of stuff do you do?

Question

and how does it differ from a real relationship?

i am so confused about this relationship i am having with this guy i have known for 2 years. We just started going out a few months ago.... and he says he wanted a sexual relationship with no strings. But what is funny to me is that we act like boyfriend and girlfriend.... we go places together like the movies, dinner and we also kiss eachother goodbye and we talk alot to each other.

Answer 1

Unfortunately, I'm in the same situation. Ultimately, you are a booty call. You have sex with this person whenever the mood strikes, but either of you are free to do whatever you want with other people, unless there are certain rules set up front. In my case, we can go out on other dates with people, but we cannot sleep with anyone else but each other. It differs.

Answer 2

That varies from F Buddy to F Buddy. Most of the time these things are kept to only on the nights when you're hooking up. Some people will go drinking first, maybe grab something to eat. Other don't do anything at all, they just come over and get some then leave.
A real relationship consists of getting to know the other person and developing more to the relationship than just the sex.

Answer 3

many variations to this kind of relationship. for some---sex in as many varieties as both (or more) wish. for others, the "no strings attached" only regards emotional or questions of exclusivity. there is the understanding that both partners are free to explore or pursue others, date, etc. without guilt or possessiveness. this gets tricky because you can't help but get intimate if you do other things as well with each other. there are dangers of course. one can reduce one's sense of intimacy and full sexual gratification into merely a biological itch that is sometimes scratched to fulfillment. he, we all know sex feels great. but can also just become another indulgence we satisfy--like a sweet tooth--and that seems a shame.

Answer 4

You just have sex! It's different from a real relationship because no strings are attached!

Answer 5

LOL, good question. I'd like to know too

But it SEEMS like if you're in a "sexual relationship with no strings attached", the kinds of "stuff" you "do" is just HAVE SEX.

Answer 6

Not in one but....

Sexual relationship involves JUST sex! No pretense about going out to dinner, no commitment, can be involved in several at once.

Real relationship is just the opposite. One person, dinner/dancing, movies, love.

Answer 7

You have sex... with no emotional commitment, no respect for one another, catch sexual related diseases... you become that person's whore and that person is your whore.

My opinion... Its a lack of respect and personal worth. It can lead toyou having feelings for that person and that person not caring or the other way around. its low, and sick once you find out you have STDs or HIV. If that person has sex with you with no strings attached that means that person can easily be doing that with 3 or 4 or 5 others... YUK!!!

Answer 8

Great question. Personally, I try to keep it in the bedroom as much as possible. We will occasionally get drinks. But things like dinner, movies, etc. makes me feel like it's opening the door for things to get serious.

Answer 9

It means you are not limited to dating other people. Basically you are in a _ _ _ _ buddy relationship. When 2 people care about each other they don't want to share.

Answer 10

You have sex and that is about it. No relationship stuff involved. Just there for the physical part of things.