I went on a date last nite with a guy (not sure if you read my previous messages) and he was real bad. Didnt pay for us on our first date - I had to, was all over me etc. He just text me saying "so do I get to take you out again", I really don't want to go out with him again. How do I let him down gently? x
2007-05-31 00:08:25 · 7 answers · asked by tinkerbellcarly86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you are sorry, but you already have a couple of dates lined up this week and don't have the time...if you hear from him again, just tell him that things have really worked out with someone you went on a date with and you would feel uncomfortable communicating with him again. That is letting him down easy...but to be honest, he was a real scumbag and doesn't deserve any kind of response, other than a curt, "No. I am not interested. Please don't contact me again."
P.S. Based on your history, you seem to have a real issue judging men at first glance. I know you have intuition...we all do...our brains are hard-wired with a fight or flight program. Listen to what it is telling you...if you have even the slightest doubt about someone...walk away. You seem to be pretty and approachable, stop acting like the next guy is the last man on earth and listen to your heart...there are great guys out there, but none of them fail to pay and feel you up like you're an escort...have a little faith in yourself and it wouldn't hurt to stop giving out your number until AFTER you have a successful date...Lots of Luck...Kes
2007-05-31 00:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naah, I don't think you should lie to him. Be a real woman and tell him, "I enjoy an old fashioned gentleman who picks up the check at the end of dinner. I like to see that a guy takes me seriously and is willing to pamper me a little." Say this in a very friendly way. If he asks further tell him you'd love to be friends and you are no longer interested romantically. If he doesn't respect that, he doesn't respect you!
good luck mama!
-Alex
2007-05-31 07:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him like your busy for the next couple of weekends or ask him when and he'll say and just say you gotta hang out with a girlfriend er something...
Damn he made you pay lol? funny.. but messed up
2007-05-31 07:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say, No I really don't won't to upset you but I fell it best that we not see each other again. I just didn't feel a connection with you like I am looing for, but thank you for everything.
2007-05-31 07:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just say no thank you and I m not interested in you and be done with it . he definately is someone you dont want to date again right? okay then let it go .
2007-05-31 07:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you enjoyed it but you do not think you are right for each other/are not meant to be and wish him the best. and do not answer any other message sent by him.
2007-05-31 07:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by kate07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say that u have smthing special to do!
2007-05-31 07:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Guly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋