I am a real nice person. And i am hurt by that.
2007-05-30 23:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Rocky that isn't true of all of us. I have only ever seen your advatar and I like you.
You want the truth hun? You don't feel you have anything else to offer. You put off that vibe. YOU think you are nothing but, a pretty face...so so do girls. The truth is...you are a really nice guy.
Before you decided I didn't like you (admitt it...you did!) You had me eatting out of the palm of your hand. You are fun and romantic and very witty. You however crash like a toddler coming off of a chocolate binge. We had one little disagreement and BOOM you gave up. (The whole you like small breasts thing) It is ok that you have a preferrance. It is ok that Iam not it. It doesn't mean we aren't still friends. It doesn't mean that I automatically stopped being attracted to you. I was just honest about my feelings like you were about yours. You have a preferrance and, it makes me feel insecure that I'm not it! lol
You go out there and talk to some girls that DO appeal to you! Let them see your funny silly romantic side. Make them laugh like you did me. (That bit about not kissing untill the...98th wasn't it? Date! VERY cheeky! lol) Trust me you have much more to offer. You are just going through a hard time and it is putting you on a down slope of not liking yourself. You are great.
2007-05-31 04:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by sistermarybella 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is this a question just for your own vanity?
Maybe you are nice but don't show it. Maybe you are so good looking that girls can't see beyond the surface, in which case, you are only going to attract shallow girls, the nice girls having decided that they'd rather not compete with the shallow ones.
Or, maybe you are not as nice as you think.
I'd say to try and get to know girls who don't know what you look like, say, online dating or something. Good luck.
Just a few thoughts, not trying to be insulting to you.
2007-05-31 07:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by hypno_toad1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure not ALL girls are like that.
I liked you before I knew what you looked like, and I'm just some chick on the internet.
There must be someone in real life who knows what a sweet guy you are. Hold out for that kind of girl.
And don't be hurt by the opinion of shallow little girls.
2007-05-31 07:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by jade j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have your own talent.Why don't concentrate on ones which love you for your talent,character n personality?You can always tell from the way they talk and so on.You can just smile to the ones which are impress by your looks.Having good looks isn't something that everyone can have.Don't bring yourself down just because of that.Cheer up!There are many fishes in the ocean.Don't rush!You will definately meet some one like that.
2007-05-31 07:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Sebastian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it amazing? Women will constantly complain that guys are only interested in the way a girl looks, but I often see questions where they will want to know how to get this "hot guy" to like them.
Hopefully they'll take notice that there is more to you than just your outward appearance before you become too jaded by it all.
2007-05-31 07:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is the first thing that attracts you to a girl? if you're looking for some kind of relationship( from friend to lover) then its your job to weed out the trophy guy seekers from the nice girls and that requires a little toughening up on your part.
2007-05-31 07:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are a nice person. That's why you dont like being appreciated only for the looks.You like to be loved for who you are and not what you are. Ask yourself....have u seen anyone who likes you but doesnt make it obvious? Have you met someone who doesnt pay attention to you but is nice to you? Have u noticed anyone who's too busy to even realize you exist? Well, then that person might be someone you'll end up being happy with. If you'd like to tell me more in detail, u can write to me:- silverlininghope@yahoo.com (jessie; counsellor)
2007-05-31 07:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cuz girls are conceited and either want arm candy or want to be a hott guys arm candy!!!
i am sure you are a nice person but to girls looks matter...we dont want ugly kids...its a compliment that they like your looks maybe in time they will like your personality too!!!
2007-05-31 13:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't buy the fact that you are hurt by it. You love the attention. The fact that you are a guy just convinces me further. I don't really see any point in this post.
2007-05-31 07:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
good looks are what get people attracted, but the personality is what keeps relationships going
2007-05-31 07:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Spring time ease 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋