My brother and I are kind of close- not in a love way but, you know. Well, it started when I was 13 and walked in on him taking a shower but now I'm 16 and he's 17. I had to keep asking him to show me how he (you know) cos I was curious about what boys do and one day when Mum was out I showed him what I do and I could see him getting hard- and then I asked him again to show me and he did. And now we watch each other touching ourselves, I know it seems a bit yuk, but we both get really excited watching each other in pleasure. We've never touched each other one- only ourselves and he and I both have a girlfriend and boyfriend now. But is this really wrong- I mean we only watch- is that bad or unnatural?
Has anyone ever done this before or has similar experience?
Can someone please give me a really, really, really serious answer- because I'm telling the truth and don't want all stupid dirty answers.
2007-05-30 23:48:25 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not right, you should stop it straight away
2007-05-30 23:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, i think there is a line to draw when it comes to siblings and these 'sexual issues'.
Perhaps it should have stopped from the time you walked in on him in the shower.
It is rather unnatural for a brother and sister to watch each other in pleasure 'so to say'... and i honestly feel that you should stop. besides, now that both of you are attached, you should be only fair to your partners. and although you do not touch each other now, you never know what could happen in the future. for example, if you both feel lonely one day, start watching each other and in the heat of excitement decided to have sex. that would be incest. and that is.. quite a problem.
think about it. he is your brother. there is a sanctity in being related. and a purity that comes along with that.
2007-05-30 23:56:09 · answer #2 · answered by greenpinkoranged 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong but you know it does happen.brothers and sisters have got together and even married in life though its not right just think of having children.also you gotta really think how your parents would feel about the whole thing. I think as long as you dont feel anything for him youll be ok if you stop it now but if you do it will end up messing you up big time.you have got to stop it as it will end up ruining your relationship when your older, with him and even other guys.it would be ok obviously if you werent bro n sis as it would be just like watching porn I suppose.
try to imagine in years time when you have kids what you would think if you found out your son and daughter were doing exactly the same I know for certain you would not know what to think or do and if you wouldnt think that then no one can help you. stop now before it goes any further, you over stepped the line a long time ago.why didnt you just ask your mum to help you learn thats what mums are for even at 13 if their child is curious theyd rather be the one to show them rather than anyone else.you have asked the question so I think that you know its wrong because you wouldnt be thinking about it in such detail if you didnt.
2007-05-31 00:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that people are being rude to you in spite of your seriousness. Yes, its wrong. A big brother is meant to be a helping hand and an object of trust and responsibility to his sister, not an object of sexual arousal. Same way visa versa. There will come a time in your lives where you'll need a shoulder to cry on, or a buddy to call up and laugh with, that time should be used to call on one another, it would be a shame if when you thought of your brother all you could think of is sex. Stop this behavior so that your brother can mean what a brother is supposed to mean to a sister in a family. You wont regret it!
Good Luck Chicka!
-Alex
2007-05-30 23:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A very sick mama dog is an extremely stressful situation. And I understand your anger at some of the answers that you received. It is normal for you to want to vent back to these folks some of your anger and frustration. So, try to remain calm and keep your focus on your dog & pups. Don't let this cloud your true goal - a healthy dog. And yes, I would love to know this outcome. Kudos to you for your quick action in caring for 7 pups! It isn't easy! I wish that more people would realize that there are situations that stump even the best of vets. While the calicum issue is the most common with these symptoms, it is not the only cause. And your dedication to this dog and her pups is very, very admirable. So, you know that you are responding to this crisis in the best manner possible. You are doing all you can do in an extremely difficult situation. Let God sort out the rest. Peace
2016-05-17 11:13:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unnatural~totally. What you do in the privacy of your own bedroom with your self is one thing. What you are doing with your brother is totally another thing. I would think that you have both been exposed to something sexual early on that would make you think this is ok. You need to talk to a professional. Chances are that you can't discuss this with your parents. Explain to them that you are feeling the need for some counseling. If they ask what is the issue tell them it is very personal and they wouldn't understand. (That's iffy) Find someone to help you. You are in a precarious position~maybe talk to a school counselor~you don't have to go into great detail, but they might be able to recommend someone that could help you. Just do yourself in your room and stop "playing" with brother.
2007-05-30 23:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by sharlaksmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so wrong on so many moral levels. I am pretty sure that no siblings will ever let things get that far. I think that there is a hint of incest that might occur if you guys keep doing this. One of you guys will probably take the next step. So it's time to stop and never speak of this again.
Good luck!
2007-05-31 02:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jamezy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Well, to start with stop it at once.
Well, i have not done it but will advice you like a younger sister. Childhood mistakes should not be continued.
Will you like that your future partner was involved in his past with something like this?????
Plz do not mess your life. Just be loyal to your boyfriend. You may not know later on this guy may blackmail you or he can just tell your Bf.
Please be mature enough to get out of it... do enjoy pleasures of life at the right age..... for a gal once the character and respect is gone, all is lost.
Take care......do a Shift+Delete and do a refresh ... if it does not work ... do a reboot.................
2007-05-31 00:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Luv + Luc = 'ME' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural for brothers and sisters of a similar age to have a look at each others bits, thats part of growing up.
But you 2 have taken it to another level and considering your ages, its a bit weird. I think you need to put a stop to it as this could be a slippery road to travel down.
It's one thing being curious about the others bits, but to sit there and watch while you play with yourselves is creepy.
2007-05-30 23:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's wrong. You know it too. You need to stop this before it escalates into more - if someone found out about this, your brother could become registered as a sex offender and it would be on his record for life - I'm sure you don't want to do this to him. Masturbation is fine, but keep it as a solo activity until you're in a proper relationship.
2007-05-30 23:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes dear it is wrong, as you both are brothers and sisters, iif you touch or watch both is the same, it is equal to doing sex, think about your future, stop this dirty habbit of yours, if anyone comes to know then you will be put up in a bad situation, stop doing this, all these can be done with your boyfriend but not with your brother. try to turn ur concentration.
2007-05-31 00:15:49 · answer #11 · answered by puppy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋