2007-05-30 22:25:18 · 20 answers · asked by Sarah Ann 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
***Thanks soo much for sharing***
2007-05-30 22:34:09 · update #1
Been there. The guy would answer phone calls from his ex when we were "together". Don't go there. It'll only end in tears. It did for me!
2007-05-30 22:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tique AM VA 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been going out? What's the situation? Did his ex break up with him?
I'd sit down & talk to him about it. Let him know that he's dating YOU, not her. If he's worried that you will do the same thing she did, just reassure him that you are not her. If he truly loves you, he will be willing to let go of the past.
It could be that he's just not ready to get into a new relationship, if he just recently broke up. If they've been broken up for a good 6 months to a year, then you may want to take a step back from this guy & only date him casually. You aren't into this relationship for an emotional three-way.
2007-05-30 22:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always seem to meet men that are hung up on their ex's or they have completely messed them up so they turn out to be complete waste of space i have been single far too long now but always seem to meet the wrong ones so end up tell them ti hit the road! I would walk on and say to yourself do i really need him in my life??
2007-05-30 23:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by british gurly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He obviously isn't going to give you the attention and respect you deserve if he is still hung up on the ex.
2007-05-30 22:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by DOT 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he's hung up (still in love with) his ex, he's not ready to be in a new relationship. Sorry.
2007-05-30 22:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by esobel6 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. My friend is suffering from the same situation and its very difficult for her to get out from this relation as she wants to leave him.
Its very difficult for her because she have to marry that guy by even knowing his habits.
As i know her future is dark and i m telling you this because you are also suffering from the same situation.
Leave him as he ll not give you happiness whole life . You ll get only tears from him remember this and enjoy your life on your own way.
2007-05-30 22:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by YUSHI 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't like the word "ex." There are certain words I block from my vocabulary and that happens to be one of them.
It just seems to be associated with lowlife behavior or lowlife people.
2007-05-30 22:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends... if he talked about her more than he talked to you about subjects that the two of you are interested in (or even his fav sports team)... then I'd probaby leave before I got hurt by him... his mind and heart still belong to her.
2007-05-30 22:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by ravenna_wing1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a hot potatoe.
2007-05-30 23:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Caitlin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll hung up when he called.
2007-05-31 00:42:53 · answer #10 · answered by † Iríšh † 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋