How big of a deal are ugly breasts?

Question

I am nineteen years old. I used to weigh 160 pounds, but over the past two years I've lost 30 pounds and am working on losing another 15. Losing so much weight has left me with stretch marks and ugly, saggy boobs. They're not down to my belly button or anything, but they don't look like 19 year old boobs are supposed to. I feel just as gross and ugly as I did before I lost the weight. Are perky breasts a really big deal for guys? I feel like no one could ever find my body attractive.

Answer 1

Honey, I don' t think that it's your boobs... I think that you are insecure ... do u think it will matter when your 80 years old? If you are really uncomfortable about your breasts then get a push up bra from Victoria's Secrets . Just remember Beauty comes from the inside not the out.

Answer 2

First of all, good for you for losing your weight. I know what a struggle it is.
However, you need to be happy with your own body first before anyone else can appreciate it. Dont think I don't know how you feel, because I do. I had a child and have stretch mark and the boob problem. I am not married, so I battled my own self worth over it. I thought no guy would want a girl that had a very stretched out body. But once I got comfortable in my own skin, I attracted the men who really didn't give a damn about it. I met and married a man who just loves my body, because I love it. You should be proud you lost that weight, its not easy to do!!! You wouldn't want anyone in your life that would just look at that.
So moral is, if you don't appreciate what you have done for your body, no one will.
Good luck and way to go!

Answer 3

I dont think it matters what they look like only hoe they affect your daily life. I would make a big deal about it until your completely hrough losing weight.
and then you might consider excercises to build muscle in your pecs. Also gather them up and stuff them into a snug little bra with thick straps to support them even a push up bra could help them look sexy just keep those shoulder straps tight. A large majority of men love breast the bigger the better. Also maintain good posture dont slouch this only makes them look saggy. And by the way who cares what guys think if you care that much you could always mutilate your breast and get a reduction and have scars. Just learn to be confident. Trust me theres someone for everyone!! You'll find someone!

Answer 4

Give yourself some time! Young skin is resilient and may tighten up over time. You can also do exercises to tighten the muscles in your chest which lifts boobs up a bit.
I had similiar experience- was 165 at at 14 and lost 40 lbs in a year. I had stretch marks on my boobs, butt, knees, inner thighs and just felt crappy about how I looked. All that work to lose the weight and I didn't feel good about how I looked!

The stretch marks did fade some over time- they never completely went away but I learned to ignore them and so did any of the guys I dated! 30 years later and 5 pregnancies has created a whole new crop of marks and I still don't worry about em!

Get some good bras that fit well. I have never, ever, ever had a guy complain about my boobs! I think that sometimes they are just happy to have some to touch! (no offense, guys!)

The bottom line is you have worked hard to lose weight and become healthier I hope. You need to learn love your body yourself. It is yours! No one can go through life unmarked and there is really no such thing as a perfect body- every one has their own idea of what is attractive. Some guys like chunky girls, some like em pregnant, some like em skinny as sticks. And while they may be attracted to the outside package, it is who you are on the inside that will form any lasting relationship.

Sister/woman- you are beautiful as you are. At 160, 150, 140, or 110!

Answer 5

Congratulations on your weight loss! Good Job. Perky breasts are not necessary to live a long happy life, however, if you really want to improve your body, a breast lift is always an option. I think you should be happy with your new thin body and see how you feel about your girls in a year or two. Then you can look into surgery if you still feel the same way.

Answer 6

There's this woman at my work who is quite short (i'm 5ft 8 she's must be up to here.... So.. about 5ft3?) and she has massive bonk-a-donks. They must be at least a watermelon each, and it does look strange. She's not fat, she just has large jugs, and i bet her back is crying out. But then on the other hand i do agree with the shirt thing. I'm a D, and when i wear a shirt it's too tight around the boobs, and sack like around the waist. My own theory is that they don't even try them on women they just ship them in cheap. I think it just depends on your own body, and how you carry it off. If that little woman was my height i think it wouldn't look so strange..... Or would it?

Answer 7

Try push ups it will help. And Use push up bras.Losing weight is a great thing. use creams that help sagginess . One secret is most of the girls dont have a firm breasts. They just dress like that and do boob works. Dont think much of it. It is not a big deal

Answer 8

after the birth of my son my normal B cup boobs went to a full DD cup, and stayed like that for 9 months, after my daughter the same thing happened., now my boobs look awful. I hate them stretch marks sagging, the whole nine yards (i am 25) and my husband loves them. most men i know like boobs, thats all, as long as they are boobs, doesn't matter what the look like
also remember how you see yourself is probably different from how others see you
be proud of yourself, and love yourself for you.

Answer 9

any man that would be turned off would be shallow jerks just like the one who said "ewwww" Mostly this is due to a small member or a high level of insecurity about their own body. Someone who loves you does not love you more or less because of your boobs.

Answer 10

They aren't ugly, they're breasts. If you rely on them to draw someone in, you've already lost. If you already drew someone in and they drive him away, he wasn't such a good pick. You don't want someone that shallow.