Am I conceited?

Question

I don't think any girl looks better than me.
I think most girls are plain and boring looking compared to me.
Guys compliment me everyday...at school, at the store, at the mall....etc!
When I go out clubbing I wear a really small dress because my legs are really toned and I like showing off my shape.
I am really a nice girl but Yes I do have confidence in myself.

Answer 1

Yeppers, It's very close to the worst case of conceited I have ever heard of and that was my ex :-) Poodle-lumps? . . . is that you? It may be the way you wrote it but it seems your dirty little secret is you spend time checking out other girls rating and sizing them up, so you can place yourself above them. That in itself makes you kind of a creepy. You may look good on the outside but most guys that are looking for more than a juice container would find it kind of hideous. I'll just bet you can't hold it in either. You can't not talk about how you are better looking to your friends. There it is in your question. I hear the whispers now. Just so ya know, most of your friends secretly think your a . . . youuuuuuu know.

Answer 2

Conceit, my dear, is an attitude. If you go out with those toned legs, in that little dress, not at all looking boring or dull BUT have a beautiful personality and are friendly and nonjudgemental, NO...you are NOT conceited. HOWEVER, if you go out with those toned legs, in that little dress, not at all looking boring or dull AND have a bitchy, stuck up, 'I'm better than all of you' attitude, then YES...you ARE conceited and fyi...Pretty is as pretty DOES! Many girls more attractive than others are looked at as not so pretty by others once their ugly personality shines through. At the same time, girls less attractive than others are looked at as VERY pretty by others once their beautiful personality shines through. Granted, first impressions may rope in many admirers but time will change one's way of thinking if the looks are the only pretty thing about a person. With that being said...you probably already know the answer to your question. I don't since I don't know you. I hope you are pretty all the way through. Like my daughter! Her beauty is truly from the deepest part of her being through to the outer most visible radiant breath taking appearance. Conceited...no...she doesn't even see herself that way even though all others that meet her and know her do!

Answer 3

You know, you are not just conceited, you are UGLY inside. It is never popular to think that you are or look better than anyone else...no matter how attractive you are. MODESTY GOES A LONG WAY AND YOU NEED TO LEARN SOME!!

As for those guys complimenting you, they are probably right, you are pretty and attractive and can't see that none of them will ever want you for the person you are. Only a Barbie Doll on their arm or in their bed to brag about.

You really need to back up and get some modesty before you find your 'pretty' self all alone--no guy or girl friends in your life.

And stop thinking you are "really nice", cause nice people don't look down on others. Also, you are not confident about yourself, you are a jerk about yourself. You need to develop the inside person to match the outside person...really quick!

You look at the responses here on YA....IN SUBMISSION, THEY ALL THINK YOU MAKE THEM SICK WITH YOUR ATTITUDE!

Answer 4

Hmmmn...then I guess I'm conceited, too?
Aha~I know right? Most girls are boring, because the pretty ones act almost the same. I have people staring at me everywhere I go too, so it feels great knowing that I'm good looking as well?
But I only think these, I don't show it off though. I'm nice to everyone, and able to talk to anyone casually. I have confidence in myself, just maybe not the times I'm in a bad mood.

So...I say...you're not that conceited if you don't act like a stuck-up prep.

Answer 5

Yeah it does sort of sound like ur conceited. I mean having confidence is one thing but being conceited is another. I think of u as cocky. I mean I get complimented all the time also so does my fiance u know they'll tell him I'm beautiful and everything like that but I don't let it get to my head. Just tone ur confidence down a bit. I have confidence too but I don't bragg about it.

Answer 6

You might not be neccessarily conceited, simply confident. There's a line between the two. If you start strutting around and dissing other people and getting carried away with that confidence, you're becoming conceited. Don't become snobby or rude, and don't ever say out loud that you are better than someone, just feel free to think it. Otherwise, you should wear confidence like make up, but not too much of course. ;)

Answer 7

Wow are your priorities backwards. It is one thing to be confident in your looks but another to think so badly of most of the other girls in the world. You need to work on the inside for a while. Beauty fades eventually but goodness of spirit and intelligence keep your life on track............

By the way I look amazing at 36, mom of 2 and I can't go anywhere without being hit on but you know what I am nice, funny, a little sarcastic and very smart and Witty. I am a work in progress and if I lose "my pretty" tomorrow that is fine because I wouldn't lose my husband or my kids or my job and that is what is important........................

Answer 8

well your entitled to think what you want but to answer your question... it sounds like you have a lot of confidence in yourself and aint nothing wrong with that. i feel the conceitedness comes from a person who thinks the way you do about themselves and at the same time put others down as if they are the one who rules the world. if you do that then i think your conceited!

Answer 9

It's not a bad thing to think you look better than most of the girls you see. It's also not bad to keep yourself in shape and be able to show it and be proud of it. As long as you know you look good and you don't use to degrade other people that aren't as fortunate as yourself. Be confident, but humble. Be sexy, but not sluty. Be sweet, but not snobby.

Answer 10

when u have it, flaunt it. but just be careful becoz some people might get the wrong message.. they may think ur a slut or something.. but its good to be confident about yourself... if thats the case, u dont have to brag about how u look diffrent from the other so they dont think ur conceited. let the others say it for u.. ^_^