I'm in a group with a couple of folks. How would you deal with people you don't like and those who don't like or respect you. Would you fake liking them to just get along, be truthful but respectful, or just let your hate hang out ?
2007-05-30 17:17:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Ive never been about being fake...I dont act rude, because that is childish to me, but I also make it known that Im not gonna fake the funk w/them either....Just be tactful...I mean, you dont like them, they dont like you, but you got to share the same space...be the bigger person, be normal, just dont acknowledge them in any way so they can try to use that to start a confrontation...Dont ever let anyone steal your joy!! Dont ever give anyone power over you!! Words to live by...life is too short..
2007-05-30 17:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Redd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never hang with anyone who didn't like me. And anyone who doesn't like me which is rare, it is their loss not mine ,and i feel lucky i don't have to be around them.
2015-08-26 03:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by Still Standing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first impulse is to say, give them a chance. But I'm never one who fakes. I am bad at hiding my feelings so one would know if I like him or not straightforward. I'd be civil with them, but not be the least friendly towards them. I'd only talk to them if it were absolutely necessary, act like they weren't there without being rude or mean. If I have the choice, I'd quit hanging out with those people altogether.
2007-05-30 21:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since this has to be a work group, you just must be civil.
You don't need to be friendly.
You just need to show respect and expect it.
If you don't get respect, take notes and visit with HR.
2007-05-30 17:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Must deal with them in LOVE. God's Love. You will not be faking it , but showing them Jesus. God says for us to pray for them too. Then He will intervene, and Honor your Sweet Spirit. O.K? Try It, Dear. You will see. (smile) + + +
2007-05-30 17:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by minnetta c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd just be cordial to them, you know, the usual civil behaviour, but wouldn't go out of my way to be nice or spiteful to them. i guess the best way to avoid conflicts with a person is to just avoid the person (as much as practically possible). that's what works for me, anyway. no conflicts yet :) (touch wood!!!)
2007-05-31 00:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by yin yang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone has to like you but everyone must respect you. You don't have to like everyone, but treat everyone with respect.
2007-05-30 17:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by 700BILLIONPOORER 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just feel to like him. He may feel to like you some other time.Don't be discouraged , just be good to him then he will realize that you are to be his friend.
jtm
2007-05-30 17:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jesus M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when that happens find another group.
2007-05-30 17:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer to your question is OK.
2007-05-30 17:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by samiran_bandyopadhyay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋