They go through my room, leaving stuff in it and taking what they want. They crash the programs i install on the computer. two months ago, i was left a little ceramic pot and flowers. after that i was left their bank statements from the past 7 years. after that someone took my kodak digital camera. they are always up to something. i don't feel it's fair how they do things that are nasty to me instead of expressing to me their needs verbally. they are always doing something to piss me off. I'm 25 and live at home wich has been hell. Apparently I ask too much of my family; however, i was gone between 19 and 24 so i have not been here long. secondly only seeds planted in rocks have to come back home at the age of 24 and yes im justifying myself. I think about leaving all the time, but when it's good it's great and when it's bad it's hell. i always come back with the fact that they're old and unhealthy &heart attacks &strokes are just around the corner. one day they'll be sorry
2007-05-30 16:12:32 · 13 answers · asked by shhhhhhhhhh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
See if they qaulify for home healthcare and get them a trac phone, They can also call 911.Get a place of your own or quit whining.
2007-05-30 16:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simply a matter of respect. They do not have enough respect for you or your privacy.
As for the other comments saying to just move, this is a little sensitive and uncaring. There are lots of reasons people move back home. Be nice.
Back to respect. There might be a reason that you are not respected. Think about this. If you moved back in because you are recovering from drug use, you will have little respect.
It could be that your family still sees you as that little kid that you were a long time ago.
I would try to establish some privacy rules. Explain how you feel and how their actions make you feel. You could also put a lock on your door, if that is feasible. Make sure that someone in the house that you trust has a key in case of emergencies.
If this does not work, consider getting a locking suitcase of some sort. If all of this fails, maybe it is time to start looking for somewhere else to stay.
2007-05-31 04:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wade M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 08:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of telling fault against them:
Try to avoid or try for a alternative remedy:
You lock the room, if not possible,lock your computer: if not you allow them as a new user;
Keep the things safe or put them that unreachable to them
something they have the mind to damage means, put it with your friends room, or house:
instead of telling about their ill doings and work , do not give chance to do the mistake by them
2007-05-30 23:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by ar.samy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"one day they'll be sorry" - not a great attitude.
If you have been away for 5 years you have to understand they have probably adapted to not having you there, and now that you're back, its a shock, they need time to adjust again.
Other than that you need to weigh up the option of the good times better better or worse, or more frequent or infrequent than the bad....
Why on earth would you move BACK to your parents house when you're 25 anyway? unless its a medical issue or something..
You're not a little boy anymore, act like the grown man you are and support yourself.
2007-05-30 16:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When things get so bad, and there is no respect or privacy, than it is time to move out. If you cannot afford it, find yourself a companion to share rent, or get yourself a second job.
If you want you will find the way, Good Luck
2007-05-30 16:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...remember if they were not there u wudnt be here...sooo they made u....potter has the right to do whatever with the pot he made...
i really think your parents will understand why dont you just say to them that u arent feeling well with the way they behave...
or for a break...join some job or some course far far away from home....
hope it works!!!!!
2007-05-30 19:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make the best of it. i know how you are feeling because life is hell for me too. just be yourself. put a really big lock on your room and for your computer put the lock on it too and make a password so nobody knows.
2007-05-30 23:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by MOMO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lock for your door, and ask them for some privacy.
2007-05-30 16:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out, they won't change. Start making your own living.
2007-05-30 17:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋