So I really like this boy, he's the first one who I can see a future with and I think I like him more than anyone I've ever met. He was into me and said he really liked talking to me but then I got a little too into it and called him a lot and kind of scared him off, but then I stopped, however since then he hasn't been as into as before. He got out of a really serious relationship about 3 months ago and it's obvious he's not over it yet. He says he wants to take things slow, but I'm scared that something might never happen because I haven't seen him in two weeks and he hasn't made any inscentive to hang out with me... He goes to school out of state so also I'm afraid that the summer's the only chance I have with him, and it's just really hard and confusing. I need advice on what I should do... I really like him, and for the past 3 weeks everytime I'm not doing something thought consuming I think about him and I always have dreams about him... I'm just really confused.
2007-05-30 15:59:35 · 6 answers · asked by Blythe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, about a week ago we were IMing eachother and I told him then I need to stop hanging out with him if he doesn't think anything is going to happen because I like him too much, he said no and that we should still hang out so he can get comfortable around me, we haven't hung out since then, he calls me or I call him and we make plans but they always fall through... I don't know if he's sending me mixed signals or not.
2007-05-30 16:12:12 · update #1
Another easy one,, DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY! TELL HIM YOUR FEELINGS!! People are so afraid to express their feelings. Hurt happens, but so does the hook-up. Take a chance, tell him what's on your mind. if you don't he will never know..
2007-05-30 16:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by jibber jabber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie .. i feel hes basically told you to ease up...he jsut got out of a serious relationship and if he loved the other then he may not be with ehr but the love is stillt here...ok??if your a teen youll feel this kinda love for ooo probably 20 guys before your grown and ready to settle down with the right one..doesnt sound like he wants to talk right now..everyone need sspace and when one person feels suffocated they will leave..soo hang tight put your mind to good use and wait..all you cna do..you need to also realize it seems your just into what you wnat..not him....so thinka bout that....takes 2 to make a relationship sweetie..hugsss
2007-05-30 23:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by bettym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you really like this boy? Be sure before you get yourself hurt emotionally. It's really hard when one person in the relationship (or lack thereof) loves the other more. If he's not into you, move on.
2007-05-30 23:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by I really hate my job... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some one else while you wait. that will seem attractive to him and it might be better than getting back together anyway
2007-05-30 23:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him that him is driving you crazy
tell him the Truth maybe he feel the same think about you
2007-05-30 23:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by italiano.87@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know
2007-05-30 23:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkigal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋