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There is this girl I really like, and we talk almost everyday, we could go together at any time, though I told her that even though I am crazy about her I think we should wait until later in the summer because I will be extremely busy working in law firms and at the prosecutors office. Not to mention being out of town and other things. I told her that I want us to be together and that I really care about her which is why I want to wait until I'm not so busy so I can give "us" a fair try. Am I wrong?

2007-05-30 14:23:36 · 17 answers · asked by Remus L 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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psh no your not wrong... if she liked you she would also respect your opinion and agree too... i mean it would benefit you both... you two would have more spending time together..... also summer is close already... if someone can't wait that short for you... shes not worth it well i hope things go well peace

2007-05-30 14:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of, you can't MAKE her wait. You can ask her to, you can hope she will but you can't make her. Reality will strike, someone else will come along to fill the void you leave behind and... well there it is.

If you are as crazy about her as you say, maybe you should be the one to make the adjustments. However, you may want to reasses your time frame for dating because you are working on your personal self. Your feelings are strong but now may not be the time for you. Sometimes you can't have two things you want. You have to give one up.

If you put a hold on this friendship, she (or you) may not feel the same if you do wait. Maybe ask her if she's willing to go along on your career journey? It's worth a shot but at the end of the day, you're really going to wind up losing her to something. It just life.

2007-05-30 21:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by da6dark6angel6 3 · 0 0

No. We each have to make our own list of priorities. Working can be stressful. Just remember the old proverb: All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy! I think you have to ask yourself what it would mean if this girl finds herself a boyfriend over the summer. Will you be sad or will you simply feel that God has a hand in what will be? If you feel you can take that chance, then keep going in the same direction. However, if you talk on the phone everyday, couldn't you reserve some of the time to see her for coffee or go visit a museum. JMO, good luck!

2007-05-30 21:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 0 0

Ask her what she thinks, and then, tell her does she think you could have a few hours over dinner or a movie every week. Don;t let her feel rejected. Send her a few roses immediately, call every chance you get, surprise her with a visit and a quick dinner. You are ridiculous thinking how you do. President Bush goes golfing and read MY PET GOAT and BS'es all day..

2007-05-30 21:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0 0

No i c were ur going with this, make sure u tell her the real reason and tell her its the truth. I mean sometimes guys say that to cover up that they really don't wanna go out with them than they want to just get thier hopes up. If she understands than it shouldn't be a problem. If she's the understandable type.

2007-05-30 21:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I can understand having a busy schedule but why not make a little room and at least take her out to dinner and talk to her ...That way she knows you are interested and will seriously consider waiting for you......

2007-05-30 21:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by starr 2 · 0 0

Your always going to have busy confusing times in your life. If you care for her why risk losing her! I think your wrong personally. Its not fair to ask her to wait until your not busy. Chances are she wont be there by the time you feel your free.So...he who hestitates-loses~

2007-05-30 21:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Hopeless 2 · 0 0

i feel what u are saying but at the same time if you really are feeling her you will find time to give her attention yes you will be busy but not 24/7...i believe that you can make time for her and still maintain your busy schedule...if you really feel her it will work out.

2007-05-30 21:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by RARE GEM 4 · 1 0

it depends on the woman. if the girl is so crazy about you to the point you dont get together right away shell kill herself your wrong. but generally your right. if you cant spend time with some one, espicially in the summer. whats the point in being with them.

2007-05-30 21:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Huh.

If I were the girl, I'd be saying to myself, "This guy is too career oriented, too focused on everything else. He's never going to make time for me. If we get involved, jobs and travel are always going to come first. Nope, not interested anymore!"

Think twice about what you're saying when you say "Wait, you come in behind everything else in my life, I'll pencil you in... oh, sometime in August. Thanks."

2007-05-30 21:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1 0

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