There is this girl in some of my classes that ive been friends with for like 2 months how do i ask her out..what do i say to her
2007-05-30 14:18:08 · 22 answers · asked by Cevman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you have to find out if her feelings for you are mutual. You wouldn't want to scare her off by coming on too strong if she doesn't feel the same. The movie theater is a really awkward place to go on a first date because it's dark, quiet and doesn't give you much of a chance to get to know each other. Think of some places to take her where you can talk and break the ice a bit. While you're on the date with her, do subtle things to show her that you're interested (flirt, hold her hand, make eye contact, etc) but don't be too clingy. Towards the end of the night you'll know if she's interested based on her reactions. If you sense that she is warming up to you, move in for the kiss. The first kiss tells everything, for me at least. Good luck, just be smooth and don't seem desperate.
2007-05-30 14:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many ways the young communicate with each other without getting formal. As you've known each other for 2 months now, asking her out won't be difficult. It is rather important to know whether she is the outgoing or the stay-at-home type of person because your 'date' depends on knowing her personality, what she likes or what interests her. So go and ask her the classic question...
2007-05-30 21:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go to neutral location with lots of other people so it doesn't seem like you're coming on too strong like party, concert, etc and smile when you ask but not in a creepy way. Ask like it would be nice if she went but no big deal if she doesn't & don't act fazed if she says no for some reason.
Maybe drop in in after casually asking what she's doing this weekend or something. Don't make it seem like a big deal and do it when you're calm & not nervous.
2007-05-30 21:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Shifty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you should just do it in a suttle way, if she's the go and have coffee quiet peacful type, ask her out to a place like a movie or something, but if she's the wild, interesting type, you should just aske her out to some place interesting, like a concert or something. but, if you just have no clue and none of that helped you, then just slowly let her know that you like her, say, "hey after ______ would you like to go out somewhere?" just plain and simple, and she'll know you like her right then. no guarentee she'll say yes, but hey, its worth a shot. better than being quiet. guys who don't speak up, usually don't get a girlfriend, cause girls are just as cluless as you!!! I hope I helped a little dude..Good luck!
2007-05-30 21:27:07 · answer #4 · answered by lillian w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the easiest way to ask someone out (and lessen the blow if she says no) ask her if she wants to go to a specific event. For example, "Do you want to go to the movies with me?" Or, "So and so is playing tonight, wanna come?" That way, if she's not interested, she can politely decline. If you say "wanna go out some time" it may be very awkward for her to say no if she's not interested. Hope it works out!
2007-05-30 21:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one: make sure she acutally likes you back talk too her reguarly
& IN PERSON when she asks how shes looks dont say hott thats annoying dont say beauitful thats too clingy just say she looks really pretty appeal too her make her feel good.
& too ask her out i mean you could just stick with the basic will you go out with me but im telling you if you guys like each other youll have little inside jokes & you could think of a really cute way too ask.
2007-05-30 21:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight out. Say "Would you like to go out sometime?" Think of someplace cute and unique to take her, like a walk in the park.
2007-05-30 21:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by fenchurchthesane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I just recomend you go all in! ask her out to go out. but make sure you tell her that THIS IS A DATE not just friends going out to see the new movie.... You dont want mixed signles......
It is better to go all in and ask her out then find out later that she did have a crush on you!
you can all ways become good friends at the ends.
2007-05-30 21:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a cool restaurant, go to it. Then casually say to her, have you ever been to blahblah? If she says no, say you just went there the other day. It's great. Explain how awesome it is. Then ask "Would you like to go me to take you there?"
2007-05-30 21:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl.and although i have never been with a guy!!!! i can tell you just let her know how you feel walk her to class tell her that she has been a great friend and you want to know if she wants to be more than just friends. a girl can try to be hard to get but belive me before you know it you will steal her heart....good luck
2007-05-30 21:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋