Over the last few months, I developed a crush on one of my friends. We work together but we are on the same level in the company. I've known her for a few years and we became friends, but I kept my feelings from her. She's currently dating someone, but my feelings for her started before she started dating again. She's dating an old boyfriend that she broke up with before. At work, she seems to flirt with me. She winks at me sometimes, smiles when she talks to me, plays practical jokes on me and when she wants to talk to me, she gets up kind of close to me. I don't understand why she would flirt with me if she has a boyfriend, or maybe what she's doing isn't flirting but just having fun with her friend. I don't know, is she interested in me? I want to tell her how I feel but should I if she has a boyfriend?
2007-05-30 14:11:23 · 9 answers · asked by iridealone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends im pretty sure she is just playin around. If you feel that way bout her than tell her you like her don't keep it bottled up inside.
2007-05-30 14:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon-Rider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bro, time to move on. Let's go with what is the best scenario in your head. You two hook up and have a relationship. Then you split, because your 17 and you will. Then what? You have to value friendship over the immediate goal of hooking up and trying things out. Friends outweigh a girlfriend any day of the week. before you start with the "she's the one stuff" keep in mind she probably isn't. And in the long one you're better off with a good friend then a short girlfriend. Take it easy, an attraction is easy to break but a friendship can be lost forever.
2016-05-17 08:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really big. If you tell her how you feel, you risk losing her friendship. She might get really uncomfortable if she doesn't share your feelings. Ask her to lunch and be a little flirty. Ask her to meet you for a drink after work, but drink really slow...ask her how she feels about her BF. Take the leads she gives you, and advance or retreat as she indicates. Above all, branch out and give some other girls the benefit of your attention. You just never know what might happen! Good luck, sweetie!
2007-05-30 14:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by rb29440 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Just ell her you've deiced you have a crush on her. Ask her if' she'd go out with you, that you two have a lot of history and lots In common and seem to get along. If she says she just wants to be friends, you've lost nothing. If you don;t ask, you'll never have the opportunity at all. She might say not yet. Ask her when? If she says she's not sure, tell her the offer is open ended. However, don;t stop yourself from dating someone else ion the meantime.
2007-05-30 14:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her your getting mixed signals because your under the impression she has a boyfriend. That should open the door for further discussion.
2007-05-30 14:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hopeless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you definatly should tell her, who cares about the boyfreind. And if she truly is doing all that stuff to you, I'm pretty sure she has a little crush as well. So in my opinion Tell Her
2007-05-30 14:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might b curious about a relationship with you.
Who knows she & the boyfriend might not be getting along well.
2007-05-30 14:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the signs are right...just ask her out on a date casually or something. hint it to her slowly but don't drop the bomb too fast.
2007-05-30 14:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by seeingstars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she might like you and if you are tougher than her boyfriend than you have no reason to tell her how you feel
2007-05-30 14:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ando 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋