is sex all its cracked up to be?

Question

i always wonder that, but every time they talk about it on the tv, they say it takes time, or ITS GREAT... whats your opinion?

Answer 1

It CAN be the most magical thing two people share with each other - and the sheer pleasure CAN be the most intense thing you have ever felt. There are a lot of things it can be, but it should NEVER be rushed.

I won't get into all of those things they talk about in sex-ed class (STD's, pregnancy, etc.) - but you should still be careful about being pressured into having sex if you're not ready...

There is nothing wrong with waiting (either until you feel you are ready, marriage, or whatever) - just don't "give yourself away" to just anyone because you want to know what it feels like.

Once you are with someone you feel comfortable enough to at least talk about it, there are a lot of things the two of you can do to explore each other without taking that final step...

Talk to someone at your local sexual health clinic - and make sure you pick up some condoms (just in case) and pills while you are there :)

Answer 2

Sex is an acquired skill, true, but it really doesn't take that long to develop a good technique that is pleasurable to you and your partner. You may not be an expert right away, that could take years you know, but at least you'll know enough to enjoy yourself.
Sex is good because your brain chemicals are working and your head is into it. Sex is good if you are attracted to the person and you like them, and they are not acting like idiots and making you angry.
Sex can be incredibly good. So good, once you have had great sex all you will think about is when is the next time going to be, and how can you make it good like that again.
But remember that love is even better than sex. You know when you get married, they say, to have and to hold. To have is to have sex. To hold is the caressing, the sleeping in each other's arms, sleeping entwined in each other's bodies....yes, to hold is probably the better part of it.

Answer 3

Sex is only that. If you don't have love with it sex then its nothing more then an act. Waiting is the best until you understand that love is more then a feeling and sex is meant to create children. Every time you have sex you can even if you both use protection make a child. Make sure you are ready for what could happen and if its worth selling yourself for sex.

Answer 4

VIAGRA attempt some, then issues could pop up between you lol heavily nevertheless i think of all couples bypass by this, been there wore the t-shirt and so on, yet some human beings wont admit it. attempt to take a seat back with one yet another and basically enable issues ensue, a intense high quality tub at the same time, accompanied by potential of a sensual rubdown, without rigidity for performing, could get him in the temper. good good fortune cathybaby x

Answer 5

Sex with the right partner that takes care of all your needs is wonderful! Sex with the wrong person hurts and is somewhat boring. I am a straight female.

Answer 6

Sex can be super amazing or a big let down, it all depends. Regardless, if you havent had sex yet, my advice is to wait until you find someone you are really into. No need to be like the growing number of young sluts out there.

Answer 7

It can be the best thing ever! When you first attempt having sex, its awkward and weird. Once you begin to understand and feel more comfortable with your nudity that's when sex begins to get better and better. Plus it depends on the chemistry of the 2 (or more) people having sex.

Answer 8

sex is only good if your resposable enouugh to enjoy it young girls tend to think the lilpoke in the back of the car is what its all about but sex can be so great but know the risks know your partner and dont be araid to please yourself we are all hos for someone so only do what u want not what you think u have to do to keep a guy/girl.as far as it takes time guys worst sex if wonderful grls not so much.

Answer 9

First let me say sex isn't love, example you love your dad..mom..bro sis aunt ..ect..and you don't have sex with them right..well when you meet someone respect ur self and he will do the same if not let him go..sex is great when u are with someone who feels what you feel,sex is more than just the act it's spiritual and that's when when you sleep with someone for so lond then you break up but you still sleep togather,it's a spirtual thing and you have to cut that off as well. i guess i went beyond your question but i hope it helps..

Answer 10

Sure the physical act of sex is great but you really benefit from the new emotions and connection you and your partner have. Assuming its not a one night stand!