I was going to meet this guy and the subject never came up and he asked for naughty pics just before our meeting and said he was testing me .. come on can this be true ?
2007-05-30 13:41:34 · 37 answers · asked by moon_wolf40 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just imagine if he posted those pix on the Internet...they would be there forever. Lose this guy at once.
2007-05-30 13:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I dont have much experience with perverts myself, except for a few guys that bugged my in class, but you should definitely report him immediately! Even if your parents and the School Board don't believe you, you and the other girls who were touched or harassed by him need to stand up against him. If he really has bothered that many girls than theres a good chance they will believe you. Its not your fault at all! You shouldn't blame yourself for it. Your teacher is molesting you and the other girls! He is the sick one! You can't cause him to touch you. And I know it must seem extremely hard to talk to your parents about something like this, but you cant let your teacher get away with this. You have to tell your parents. You know what he did was wrong, so don't try to forget about it and let it go by. That man should be fired! Get him registered as a sex offender. Just think of all the girls he will molest after you graduate. I know I'm not very good at motivating you over the computer, after all, i'm younger than you, but plz, if it's really true, dont let him get away with it.
2016-05-17 08:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person.
For example I am a christian teen, and would never really ask for naughty pictures being serious. One day i was talking on the phone and she said that she was changing, so i was like "Gee Rachel can u send me some pictures? " then told her that i was kidding, she does the same to me....
it is 100% possible that a man wants a woman for more than sex, he was kidding as he said,
2007-05-30 13:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it can be true. Have you NEVER "tested" a guy??
Women are naturally hard-wired to "TEST" men CONSTANTLY just to see what they will say, or do. Many times, women are even unaware when they are doing it.
Here are some examples of CLASSIC tests by women . . .
1) A women will accept a lunch invitation out with guy who she knows is interested enough to invite her out. She says "SO, DID YOU ASK ME OUT FOR LUNCH BECAUSE YOU JUST WANNA BE FRIENDS , OR ARE YOU HOPING FOR SOMETHING ELSE??"
- A complete wussy man says "just friends" and she will know right there that he is lying and doesn't have the balls. She also knows that IF they were in a realtionship and he had lunch with some woman , he would LIE and say "OH HER?? NAH WE ARE JUST FRIENDS".
- The correct MANTASTIC answer to that question is .... "Well I was wondering that myself". You get points for honesty, you give NOTHING away, and she will go nuts trying to figure out why there are not more direct men in the world like you.
2) A woman has a date over to her place and she suggests watching a movie / DVD and asks him what he wants to see. The "Bridges of Madison County", "Sleepless in Seattle", or "The Notebook".
- THE WUSSY BOY would agree to either of those. And right then and there she will roll her eyes and not be able to WAIT for him to leave.
- The way to pass that test is to say "NIETHER. THOSE MOVIES ARE FOR GIRLS WHO DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WHEN A MAN IS IN THE SAME ROOM WITH THEM." . . . . . and then he kisses her.
3) When a woman asks you "does my a-s look fat in these pants??" She does NOT want an answer other than what SHE WANTS TO HEAR. She is "testing" if you are a WUSSY. Only a wussy man would say "No. No. Of course not. You are beautiful!!! Your a-s is the most beautiful a-s in the world. I love you." But in this case, she is testing.
The correct MANTASTIC answer to a stupid question like that is (smiling very loudly) .... --> "YES! YES your a-s looks fat in those pants. Now get it over here before it hits the floor." I guarantee you she will never ask again.
Just like women constantly test men . . . at least this guy who asked you for naughty pics of you openly admitted he was testing you. There may be a number of reasons for that. Either way, its as much HIS right as it is YOURS, wouldnt' you say???
He may be hoping you are a girl who is not shy about her sexuality. He may very well be. Why didn't you say "I will show you mine if you show me yours!!!" I bet that would change the subject very quickly.
Or perhaps . . . . he is NOT actually looking for a girl who has naughty pictures of herself and is readily available to show them to anyone who asks.
But whatever the case, take my advice. . . . . If there is ANYTHING you want to know about your man... ask HIM. Dont ask your girlfriends what they think. Don't ask your Dad. Dont ask your Mom. Don't keep it bottled up inside while you are dying to know the answer. Don't ask a bunch of strangers online.....
ASK HIM.
At least he was direct and open and you can never blame a guy for that.
2007-05-30 14:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pervert
2007-05-30 13:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Constipation 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he has a problem. I would not send the pictures or meet the person alone and would recommend you stop communicating with the person or ever meet him. He will take it as encouragement if you keep corresponding with him in any way.
2007-05-30 13:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's hitting on you, a test to see if youre a naughty girl so he can hit on you even further. I'm serious.
2007-05-30 13:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by Solid Snake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a perv
why would a "nice" guy ask for nudie pics before meeting and getting to really know the gal
DONT MEET HIM
2007-05-30 13:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think hes a pervert...why ? is he intreasted in you or what your body looks like...hes test was more then likely to see if your body was worth the time or if it was worth meeting.
sorry to be so frank, but .....
2007-05-30 13:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by blue moon lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, he's bad news. if it's a joke or a test it doesn't matter. it's something that you don't want to bring up when you're meeting someone face to face for the first time. it's tacky.
2007-05-30 13:45:16 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think hes being a pervert but hes trying to make it funny.....i personaly dont think thats funny ...just perverted (aka hoping that ull say yes and then later writing it off as a joke)
2007-05-30 13:45:07 · answer #11 · answered by hana chan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋