When were having sex and he comes,he thinks hes supposed to stop and hes still hard, but i thought it was over when he goes soft again?
2007-05-30 13:06:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For you - he is supposed to stop whenever you TELL him to ;);)
For him - if he can still keep it up after orgasm (a blessing of youth), then he should stop just long enough to do a proper condom change - and then just keep going as long as he possibly can! It only gets better the second time...
The refraction period (or "down time") between orgasms (and erections) can vary greatly - but when things are hot (and I mean blazing inferno hot!!!), you can pretty much eliminate it altogether. But as soon as he does stop - it will be completely over.
2007-05-30 13:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the same thing happens with my Fiancee. He will ***, slow down a bit and then keep on going thats almost all the time a few times he has came and still be hard and stopped but usually he keeps going......hmm....Maybe he just feels like after he cums his job is done still hard or not. Have you mentioned it to him? If not you should.
2007-05-30 20:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by reses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that he's supposed to stop if he's still hard. i think he supposed to stop when he goes soft again like you said. remember guys can come more than once.
2007-05-30 20:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by anabel. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm even if he gets soft it dont have to be over. If he isnt making sure you get off, then you need to find a new partner. You are supposed to be pleasing EACH OTHER.
2007-05-30 20:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some guys, it's uncomfortable to continue after orgasm even if they are still hard. If that's not a problem, tell him you'd like to keep going as long as he can
2007-05-30 20:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no he shuldnt stop, especially if u dont think he should, i assume that ur not ready for him to stop right? maybe hes tired, but yeah ur right, he shouldnt really stop until he goes soft, just tell him to keep goin :)
2007-05-30 20:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes..he is supposed to stop. Guys cant keep going, because his thing gets tickly and stuff..you just cant
2007-05-30 20:10:34 · answer #7 · answered by Constipation 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,
well your right if its soft it IS over ....lol, but men as well as women can have multi orgasms,,, so if he is still hard ...have fun and keep going you both just might be surprised !
p.s ... and remember....stay safe ...play safe
2007-05-30 20:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's hard keep going I guess
2007-05-30 20:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by tryin2help 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex is all about pleasing each other. if he doesn't want to have vaginal sex any more, and your still not satisfied, tell him to get down on his knees and start lickin.
2007-05-30 20:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋