Alright, so there is this guy I know and he is bi-sexual. We are "more then friends" and it looks like it is going to get more serious. I have absolutely no problem with this but some of my friends say that dating a bi-sexual person is not a good idea. The way I see it is that he is just as likely to cheat as a straight guy. Being gay or bi doesn't mean you are unfaithful.
2007-05-30 12:55:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I would say he is more likely to cheat....
Here are my reasons...
A straight guy has his sexual needs fulfilled. He is attracted to a woman, and when he has sex with her, he is not thinking about the other gender.
A bi-sexual man, although he may very well care about you, is still missing a part of what turns him on. It may be OK for the first little while, even few years, but eventually, for him, the thought of never being with another man MAY drive him to cheat.... I'm not saying this is the case, but it may well happen.....
Either he agrees to never be with another man or you willingly allow him to be with one.... Its not the ideal situation, but if you do go through with it, I wish you well.
2007-05-30 13:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by kimison_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on the guy. Some bi/gay people I think really are more likely to be unfaithful, and they don't have the 'boundaries' about cheating or being faithful that many 'straight' people do. But some are not likely to be unfaithful, no matter who they are with. If you know this guy well enough to trust him regardless of his sexual preference, then go for it. I don't think his being bi should be part of deciding whether or not he's 'worth' dating. Good luck~
2007-05-30 13:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess you have too worry about catching HIV regardless of who you have sex with, but even in this day and age, SOME of the gay guys are going bare back and don't really care who with. So just remember the importance of safe sex. Also, I wonder if you get real serious if he could give up other relationships. I think that is something you need to know, so I suggest asking him before you find yourself heartbroken. And, no, we can't change any one.
2007-05-30 14:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any real problem with the fidelity part as long as you trust him and you both understand the relationship. You will certainly have an easier time if you ever decide you want a threesome with two guys.
Beware, though, that bisexual men are at higher risk for HIV than straight men. This is something you should consider. Otherwise, go for it.
2007-05-30 13:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was dated a guy and later learned he was bi(he cheated on me) buy your absolutely right! Bi,gay or straight, your either a cheater or your not! I am bisexual and I dont cheat on my husband,EVER. Occasionally we'll "venture out" but we do it together. And if he ever decided he didnt want to venture I wouldnt cheat and I didnt cheat for the years before we ever did ever have a 3-some. If your interested, go for him.
2007-05-30 13:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no bi guys girl that's not a good idea. This has nothing to to do with cheating... there are no bi guys no no no .
2007-05-30 13:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by Beth`El R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just dating...then date. Just be careful about getting too serious. Have fun with it. The thing about "bi" people is that they have that confusion...which may prevent the relationship from going too far. So if you are in it to have fun...do just that. Otherwise...take caution and be honest and open with where you are. Communication is key :)
2007-05-30 13:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Linner 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
attempt to stay out of a promiscuous dating contained in the 1st place. In different words, in ordinary terms date those which will commit to a minimum of one individual. i comprehend this is confusing for gay varieties. in case you had impulse administration you does no longer be sticking it the place the sunlight would not shine, yet provide it a shot. real intimacy lies with the bond between 2 those that are dedicated to a minimum of one yet another.
2016-10-06 08:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't a good idea. Trust me. I've known several bisexuals, and they've all been homosexuals in denial. I will never consider dating a bisexual again. Find a straight guy and put your mind at ease. You deserve better. Good night!
2007-05-30 13:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you promise monogamy, then maybe no problems. But, when there is unfaithfulness (male or female)---it's all over but the crying. You two need to make an agreement as to what you are okay with
2007-05-30 13:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by islandboosky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋