2007-05-30 12:50:10 · 15 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the first time IT WILL, but it also depends on the guy...if he's gentle it won't be that bad =-D
2007-05-30 12:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by lialove_18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your talking about for the first time, the YES it hurts pretty bad. As for having sex on different occasions, then you may want to see a doctor, you could have an infection up there, or sometimes this happens when you have certain medical problems down there, if this is the case then you should seek a doctor. When was the last time you had a pap test? You should go at least once a year. Take care of yourself, too many sickness these days. If you ignore it, you could end up with a serious amount of problems.
Good luck!!
2007-05-30 13:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by too_b_ur_self 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having Sex can be a painful experience the first time you have sex especially and for a few times you have intercourse afterwards. However, If you have sex regularly and relax/enjoy it then after the 4-5 times it shouldn't hurt very much. If you wait awhile inbetween having sex then the vagina can close back up and be uncomfortable to have sex.
If you have had sex a number of times and it's still uncomfortable then it could be a number of things. 1. the lubrication isn't enough or is drying up too quickly. (I reccomend 'Just LIke me' which cna be found at pureromance.com This Lube doesn't soak up and keeps you wet and ready for fun! :) ) 2. You have a time between the intercouse sessions which allows you to shrink and close back up. 3. You may be too tense to enjoy it or be too worrying about him enjoying it. You may not be comfortable with the person you're with. 4. It's possible that you're afraid it's going to hurt and are looking for the pain. 5. It's possible that your lover needs to be more gentle with you and you're taking longer to warm up and enjoy sex. 6. It may be the position that is being used. Maybe trying a different entrance position or once inside for awhile switching positions.
If it's painful for the male to have sex it could be due to a number of things. 1. The penis being extra sensitive 2. The vagina being too tense and tight not loosened up and accepting. 3. The lubrication may not be sufficent and may want to try adding some to the penis before trying to enter. 4. It could be the position in which you are having intercourse. 5. The mind setting could be to focused on one thing and not enjoying it enough.
Hope this Helps. You may want to check into askalice.com it's a webset that has alot sorts of questions and answers in this manner. It's free and is answered by a doctor.
Hope this Helps. :)
2007-05-30 13:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Susie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Usually hurts the first time for girls, which is often called "taking their virginity" for a reason because there is no going back to that same feeling. It is no longer the same pain after that though sometimes after the first it can still hurt, but because your body is slightly different later on. (steadily changes after each time)
2007-05-30 13:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you do it right. Just kidding. It shouldn't hurt if you're speaking in the general sense. If it does, I'd see a doctor. Good luck with that.
2007-05-30 12:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
If it's hurting you, you need to visit your doctor.
Could be a sign that something's not right in there.
2007-05-30 12:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See your doctor
2007-05-30 12:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no and if it does its one of two things your partner is rushing or there is a medical problem --- best wishes
2007-05-30 12:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only the first time for girls
2007-05-30 12:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, if it hurt everytime people wouldn't want it so much
2007-05-30 12:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋