Ok I had 2 have surgery when I was 14 for scoliosis, i was out for about 5 days on the meds in ICU therefor they had to put a tube up my vagina {A cathater} does that still mean im a virgin? I told my bf I was and ummm its gonna be kinda tough explainin 2 him on our weddin night wen he sticks it in and ya u get wat im gttn at....
So wat? Yea or Nah I'm super confused about this=(
2007-05-30 12:29:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a guy. You're a virgin. Tell him about what happened to you before your wedding.
BTW, don't expect to have enough energy after your wedding to do anything other than cuddle on that night. "Your big day" isn't really "yours." The next morning is yours. Also, bring sneakers to wear during your reception. Trust me (actually, trust every woman I know who every went through that).
2007-05-30 13:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by mcmufin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...um....okay, lemme try to explain. The catheter doesn't go up your vagina, it goes through the urethra into the bladder. There's a difference. And yes, you are still a virgin. You'll be a virgin even if you use tampons and physically break your hymen, since you haven't quite had sex. Hope that helps :)
2007-05-30 19:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your still a virgin so dont worry about it. You never had sexual intercourse with a man or anything so you are fine... Dont worry honey your wedding night will be special.
2007-05-30 19:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by superthunda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are still a virgin. Not all girls have a hymen.
And catheters usually go in your urethra (where you pee).
2007-05-30 19:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u are a virgin. you can only lose your virginity if you have penetrable sex with a partner.
2007-05-30 19:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long was that and i think you should explain to him the situation, you know that when you are in a relationship you should tell your spous everything.
2007-05-30 19:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by higgins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋