my boyfriend is avoiding me. he says he's not and that he needs to spend more time with his friends. say that he's NOT cheating. what else could it be??
2007-05-30 12:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by abcdefg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, maybe it is exactly as he says. He wants to spend some time with his friends because he's been neglecting them lately.
Otherwise, maybe he is trying to put dome distance between you two because it is moving too fast for him.
Or maybe he is trying to let you down gently.
2007-05-30 12:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you're way clingy and needy. Get a life, get some friends, and hang with them sometimes. Your boyfriend should NEVER be your everything. If you expect him to spend all his time with you, you'll only end up with a loser anyways. You deserve better!
2007-05-30 19:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by SoCalChick 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this i swhy us ladies cant never be in a real relationship because we are always trying to find something wrong hwen everything is actually okay if u trust him then dont waste ur time on yahoo ANSWERS because there isnt really a question a realtionship bases off trust
2007-05-30 19:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Phat-Phat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long has he been avoiding you? does he call you? everyone needs their friends ..its important to spend time with friends ..family..you can't make one person your entire world...i guarantee you that person will fall short of the mark..we are all human....to check if he is still interested in you....lean back....and see if he leans forward.
2007-05-30 19:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Flynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry you felt this way...my suggestion dear try to turn the table around...BE LESS AVAILABLE FOR HIM TOOO CUZ IF YOU DO...TRUST ME HE'LL START WONDERING WHY YOUR DOING THAT AND MIGHT THINK THAT YOU FOUND SOMEONE ELSE..
most of the guys are like that...if we are always there for them...trust me they dont see that....instead they get drowned and runs away from us....unless you become less available that will make them more challenge to get you...good luck
2007-05-30 19:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just telling the truth. he probably noticed that he was drifting apart from his friends and didn't want to lose them.
be patient. nobody likes to have to chose friends
2007-05-30 19:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by double you tee ef (the answerer) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd break up with him.It sounds like if he's not lying,that he doesn't value you much as a person.
2007-05-30 19:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Babylove 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋