I've been dying for one ever since the middle of this year. I see all these hot girls and I'm scared to ask em out because I got rejected before. And I feel like people are judging me in my school based on my appearence, I think that I'm good looking and so do a lot of other people it's just that theres a lot of people who stare at me and that makes me uncomfortable, especially girls. And I knew this girl for a couple days than asked her out and she rejected me, oh well. But I know that I have to get to know girls first, the prob is getting to know them and becoming friends with them. I only have guy friends so girls are basically like another species to me when becoming friends with them. I hate my life.
2007-05-30 12:25:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that if a guy walked up to me and was just brave and confident, that would be better than anything else.
2007-05-30 12:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Lawson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2. Shower thoroughly. Drink about 2 nice stiff drinks (if you're over 21 yrs old).
3. Friday & Saturday night, go to a party or club and you will have your confidence to approach ANY female and the tolerance to accept rejection, but patience to keep trying.
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Good lUCK
2007-05-31 21:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you have your head on straight and you're not just asking "How do I get someone to like me?".
Right, well, it's easiest if you're in a club or something, because your interests will be similar enough to talk. Girls are essentially like guys, since we're all human beings, but we don't tend to tell as many dirty jokes. Just be casual and cool and talk to a few girls...a couple of days isn't enough to just ask someone out, though, but if you're friends for a long while she'll probably stop seeing you as a potential mate and just as a friend.
Good luck :)
2007-05-30 12:29:50 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First up, how old are you? I'm guessing around 15 (I'm probably wrong!)
You're at a tricky age girlfriend-wise. The girls in your year are probably looking for older guys, and younger gilrs are TOO young!
It sounds like you need more confidence with girls. The best way to get comfortable around girls - honestly - is to be friends with them first. You must sit near girls in some of your lessons. Just get talking to them - ask them about coursework, or ask them to explain something to you. And do it genuinely. Don't try to talk to them as a introduction to asking them out. Just talk to them for the pleasure of trying to make a new friend.
Look at the kinds of sports you play. Football won't be good for meeting girls. Tennis, on the other hand appeals to both sexes and we're coming up to tennis season. Likewise, after-school clubs. Chess - blokey; drama club - appeals to both. Science club - blue zone; music - purple zone (both pink and blue!) Get yourself into situations where you can find common ground with girls and conversation and friendship will follow.
Girls seem weird, but they are very much like boys in a lot of ways (but they smell nicer!)
One last thing: there is a LOT of time to find a girlfriend yet. There are more important things to concentrate on at the moment. Don't let it get you down too much.
2007-05-30 12:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you just need to be happy in your own skin. Be proud of who you are. Start talking to a girl about some topic you know quite a lot about - find someone who has similar interests. Small talk, little jokes, body language will help. Good luck!
2007-05-30 12:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by Meli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heard of the saying "nothing ventured nothing gained" "lots of fishes in the sea" u say ur good looking so you have low self esteem and just because one girl turned you down doesn' t mean anything and it doesn't mean she though you were ugly either. other reasons to turn a guy down than that. Ask a girl to do something with u in your classes. ask for help on something. have her as a study buddy and etc. how did you meet all your guy friends. do it in that manner.
2007-05-30 12:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by bunnygrl43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are NOT another species, they're just like you!
They all have insecurities, anxieties, and hang-ups just like guys do (or usually WORSE!)
Just be yourself, be friendly, and be interested in what they say---DON'T spend the conversation looking at her chest!
Become friends, and see what happens.
Maybe they sense you are too needy? Just relax & enjoy their company.
2007-05-30 12:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you go out with a girl who HATE HER LIFE??? First, love yourself, and you will attract girls.
2007-05-30 12:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by Edith Avatar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-01 05:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He does not deserve u!! tell him 2 sparkling up his act or it is over Or combat fire with fire make propose and sarcastic jokes approximately him and then perhaps he will comprehend how hurtful it somewhat is!!
2016-10-30 06:35:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋