I've been dying for one ever since the middle of this year. I see all these hot girls and I'm scared to ask em out because I got rejected before. And I feel like people are judging me in my school based on my appearence, I think that I'm good looking and so do a lot of other people it's just that theres a lot of people who stare at me and that makes me uncomfortable, especially girls.
2007-05-30 12:03:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Overcome your shyness and start talking to girls if you so desperately want a girlfriend.
2007-05-30 12:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many factors involved with being in a relationship. First, you can't be scared of rejection. If you fear rejection, you're probably not ready to face the pain and hard work associated with building a relationship. From the arguments to the compromise, and from the life-altering changes to the simple adjustments to your day, life will be full of things that require you to be strong for yourself as well as your partner. Second, stop worrying about what others think. The only person that should judge you is yourself. If you think you're doing something or look like someone that wouldn't attract the type of partner you want, then change. But if you choose to be yourself and you know what type of person you want to be with, stick with it and don't settle. Girls love a confident guy, not someone who constantly worries about what other people think. Good luck.
2007-05-30 12:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first... NEVER go up to someone and ask them out. To get a girlfriend, you need someone you know well. You two need to be more than friends, like talk to each other and hang out with each other for about a year or so. After that, you might start dating her. Just say "You wanna go out with me?"
In the date, DO NOT go straight for a kiss. You might need money, because dates usually start with a dinner (or lunch) in a restaurunt... (also, bring a bouquet of flowers) after that, take a walk. You then can talk or sing (if you can... no offence) to her. Change subjects now and then... for an hour or 2. After that, go somewhere and dance with her. Then take another walk... then you can go for a kiss, but don't ask if you can, just do it... slowly though. Also, when kissing, hold her shoulders or hug her (not tightly).
Good Luck
P.S I don't have a girlfriend and I'm 12! = D
2007-05-30 12:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Criminal9021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 17 and I have never had a boyfriend weird but true...this one time this guy really liked me he wrote me a letter but with him I just wanted to be friends plus he made me feel uncomfortable he was always around and I don't like that at all...but I liked thi guy for about six months and I am such a punk I can't get the guts to go talk to him and school is almost out...I really need to get his number and I promise myself that I will and when I do that I care less about the things I am afraid of...if I don't I consider myself a liar...but I will and so can you if she rejects you life goes on and so can you if you do it tomorrow let me know how it goes...there will be a question open my friend friend and you can drop your comments or something on there about how it went I believe in you and drop the shyness be confident when you talk to her and most of all make her smile and have the conversation short and sweet...SMILE
2007-05-30 12:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i believe is sexy in a guy is his confidence. not an arrogant confidence though, then you come off as an asshole and you think you can get whatever you want. the best thing i can say is don't go looking for a girl, cause the minute you start looking for a girl, you look despret. just go with the flow. if you meet a girl and your feeling her, get her number and become friends with her. if you feel that she isn't what you're looking for, just stay her friend and move on. don't be afraid to ask a girl out. trust me, i don't ask guys out because i don't want to get rejected either. everyone has that fear. i have to get over it and just take a risk, and as do you. just be yourself, have fun, and live your life. when a girl comes, just roll with the punches and don't try too hard to get her. if you're supposed to be with her, you will. i hope i helped! good luck!
2007-05-30 12:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by smilez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is to common, don't worry. Just have courage and go up to the girls, i mean what's the worse that could happen if they say "no" or something else, don't let that bring you down. Come on i know you could, if you consider yourself a good looking guy, then i'm pretty sure a girl out there thinks the same.
2007-05-30 12:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Lorena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to have confidence in yourself, go for the gusto and break out of your shell, don;t worry about being rejected because that is life, there will always be someone who won't like you even though you want everyone to like you, Don't worry about what people think. so if there is someone your interested in start up a conversation and ask them out. But remember always be a gentlemen, with class and dignity.
2007-05-30 12:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most- not all- girls look to guys to do the asking. And it seems hard- I've never done it myself, but it seems terrifying- but you just have to do it. It'll suck if you get rejected, and that's a possiblity- but most girls won't think you're a loser or anything- they'll just be worried that your relationship (if your friends, or ever want to be) could be damaged. Just respect them and keep it unawkward, and a girl will say yes.
2007-05-30 12:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if girls stare at u don't look away give them a look and maybe even talk to them
don't go after the hottest girl in school but find some girl in on of your classes that you have fun just being around
make time to talk with her, get to know her
and make your move it takes a lot of guts but you'll be glad u did
2007-05-30 12:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna quote something to you that I heard before on a video clip 'If you hated something in your life, whatever it may be, you would actually do something about it".
So, if you hate being single, do something!! Look, just because one girl turns you down, doesn't mean that all girls will turn you down. Analyze your approach on how you asked that girl out, figure out why she did. And see how you can improve your approach.
2007-05-30 12:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by sum1_keeps_taking_my_name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okies dude. Just wait there'll be a girl and she'll like u for all of u. Just wait, trust me it works out a lot better when u wait 4 some1 who catches ur eye all of the sudden.
2007-05-30 12:07:54 · answer #11 · answered by vampsshallruleagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋