I wasnt overly drunk-just tipsy. Anyway i knew that day my bf wanted me to do a striptease for him. I danced for him then took everything completely off. I'm kinda embarassed now incase i danced silly or something,i'm also embarassed i flashed my private 'part' . He hasnt mentioned the dance since so i'm wondering if he didnt like it very much?
2007-05-30 11:59:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres nothing to be embarrased about here. He was your boyfriend and you where having fun. For people who say "men dont like things like that", take it from a man, we do. It shows your fun and not a prude. I think your probably a fun person and if it where me id be teasing you about it for weeks. Who cares what other people think, you only have one life. You didnt go shooting pups, you got tipsy and stripped off. I have done far more embarrasing things drunk and so have many other people, including waking up next to complete strangers, after giving them more than a dance. remember he WANTED her to do a striptease, if you care to read the question. I wish all girls would be a good laugh like you, instead of all the stupid mind games that they play. Thank god ive got my own decent one and dont have to worry about the rest now lol.
2007-05-30 12:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Emm H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. It's him, not you. You gave him what he thought he wanted, and he realized some fantasies are just that, fantasies - it's always better imagined than it is realized.
While they sound very erotic, strip teases are actually pretty boring, especially if you show everything. Remember, "erotic" is mental, hint at what you have to offer and leave him anticipating more.
Next time, do it stone-cold sober, and make sure he doesn't get to see anything. Then dress yourself in something sexy (outside his presence) and make him take you to dinner. He'll yell and scream about you being a tease, but isn't that the point? He'll like it next time.
2007-05-30 12:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by mcmufin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For my birthday last year, my friend took me out (hubby stayed home with our kids). It was a work night and she didn't want to stay out late so I guess she thought the faster I drank the sooner I would want to go home. Not so much! When she left I told her I would find another ride home. We live in a country town that's not incorporated so I knew everyone. I don't remember the end of the night, but when my hubby woke me up early the next morning he was laughing. I felt horrible!!! I went to take the kids to school before I went to work and one of them mom's asked if I got a picture from the inside of the cop car? hahaha Apperantly, I called my hubby for a ride, but since he was with the kids he called one of his friends to come and get me........ who happened to be a county sherrif and on duty at the time! This year, I let the kids make me dinner. lol
2016-05-17 07:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact one your bf ASKED you to do a strip tease for him (lets not forget that)
Fact two all men like that sort of thing including your bf
Fact three drunk men do tend to FORGET when they are drunk
Fact four if he says nothing-remind him again!
SERIOUSLY My advice-talk to him.A good relationship is based on trust and honesty and ultimately communication.If you cant talk about that then really how will you be able to talk about even more important things?
2007-05-30 12:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by Modbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a moment--just forget about it. If your BF knows you did something you were embarrassed to do it could be the reason he hasn't mentioned it. I don't know of any man who wouldn't like his girlfriend to do a little tease dancing.
2007-05-30 12:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can guarantee he liked it a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!
most fellas would regard themselves as being very lucky if they got a striptease from the missus.
sounds like he dont wanna embarass you.
mention it to him first so he knows you aint embarassed about it.
good luck
2007-05-30 12:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be really embarassing if he happened to be using a cell phone.Not the smartest thing you've ever done
2007-05-30 12:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's your BF and he won't be embarassed if its just the two of you. I think he don't wanna mention it because he thinks you would be embarassed but trust me...he liked it.
2007-05-30 12:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by Simpleofmind 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is you boyfriend !! It's not like you are doing it with somebody you don't know...
I am sure he appreciated it cause he is a guy :D
If he did not mention it maybe he just doesn't want to embarassed you cause he knows that you were drunk and maybe he thinks that you do not feel confortable with it
You still can asked him, he is your guy !
2007-05-30 12:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by Juli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he probably enjoyed it. He may prefer it if you did it sober so that he would know you were doing it out of love and desire for him. Do not be embarrassed. Ask him if he enjoyed it and see what he says. If he asks you to do sober then choose a time and do it.
2007-05-30 12:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋