how do u give ur boyfriend of 2 months a push? ive kissed him on the cheek already and he hasnt kissed me bac yet. weve said i love you and stuff and i know he really does care. i want to hold his hand but the only time that happens is when i grab his hand. he is a shy boy to begin with. but i want him to hold me hand and kiss me too. so how do i give him the extra push without going up and saying it to him, were in school so wer enot adults, were teenagers. i dont know how to push him, or will it ever happen? PLZ HELP ME ON WHAT TO DO!
2007-05-30 10:15:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to say it.. As long as you both have the same feelings to eachothers just DO IT.. Generally boys meet the same problem with shy girls, in your case it's the opposite, it's not about gender it's about personality some people are just more or less shy than others to take the first step regardless to their gender.. Most girls expect the first step to come from the guy and I find it very strange.. A girl and a guy will both enjoy it so why one waits to the other one to start.. If you can do the first step just do it.. It's not hard it's fun, if you feel like kissing him just do it, if you feel like hugging him just do it.. Believe me you'll get surprised with his response you'll find how much he wants you as much as you want him.. Just choose the right time and place and do it, after all I don't want you to get arrested with harrasment abuse..lol Good luck..
2007-05-30 11:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by semsem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Well if you have been together for two months, have not truly kissed, and still said you love each other, there is something truly wrong here. There is no way after two months and no intimacy you can know you love that person. You may love the idea, you may love the idea of them, but you don't love them. Maybe one day you will, but without time, intimacy, a little bit of growing up, and no pushing you can't know. Don't push him. Don't force him. Talk to him.
Holding hands may be a bit too public for him. Try putting your arm around the back of his waist when you walk, or around his shoulders if he isn't too much taller then you (my boyfriend is a good head taller and that is impossible for me to do that) Try spending some time alone with him, laughing and just being together. The kisses will come naturally. Trust me.
Though I will say this: If after two months of 'dating' you haven't really kissed him, maybe the two of you aren't meant to be together. Usually the kiss is what starts the relationship.
2007-05-30 17:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative. Any guy who doesn't show his girl attention of affection is not worth your time. That "too cool" attitude is boring.
Go for it. Kiss him. Take his hand. Whatever you want, get it. If he pulls away or tries to act like he doesn't want it then leave him flat. You deserve better.
2007-05-30 17:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean in public? Some people don't like to be romantic in public. Or they get embarrassed, thinking they will be teased about it.
He may not feel he deserves you. Or, perhaps, he really isn't as attached to you as much as you are attached to you. (Ouch!)
Ask him if any of these things are true.
P.S. I think gumgirl1228 is right - he'll get used to it if you keep doing it.
2007-05-30 17:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Tina Goody-Two-Shoes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happend to me... ok 1st of all if hes too shy to do all that u do it eveeryday u seee him. he will soon b used to doin this n he will start doin it
2007-05-30 17:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by gumgirl1228 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to initiate for now so that he gets comfortable with you and he will start doing it himself.
2007-05-30 17:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by GiorgioArmaniRules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take you clothes off and rub your **** in his face.
2007-05-30 17:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by WilljClinton 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋