There is a reception after so I'd have time to hang out with her but i wanted to know if you thought that was ok
2007-05-30 09:04:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow 25 answers in 3 minute, ok I won't
2007-05-30 09:08:41 · update #1
40 answers in 5 minutes ya'll must really object
2007-05-30 09:12:22 · update #2
No for so many reasons. One graduation is about the graduate, which is you. She could get lost in the moment. Second you will be out of touch for the duration of the graduation and afterwards when your family and friends swarm you to give you congrats. Do you really think a girl wants to meet your entire family on a first date? A movie and dinner is a date not a trip to your high school.
2007-05-30 09:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a very good first date for her. If it were me, I'd feel awkward sitting with the friends and family of someone I just started dating. Also, graduations are long and not that much fun. I'd pick something else where you and she could spend time together, just the two of you.
2007-05-30 09:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kathryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly wouldn't recommend it. At your graduation you will be talking to alot of people, friends and family and it's your special day so you should enjoy it. Plus if you ask her on a date for your graduation she might feel obligated to buy a gift. Your first date should be something special with just the two of you not a big occasion. Hope this helps.
2007-05-30 09:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by 2craz4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it a nice idea. But make sure she knows someone to sit with during the ceremonies. And be sure you know where she is sitting so you can wave to her, or at least make eye contact sometime during the ceremonies.
Don't forget a corsage for her, and be sure to have a graduation photo with her by your side. If things work out, sometime in the future it would be sweet to give her a locket with that photo in it.
Hope it does work out. Seems like you are a caring kind of guy..
2007-05-30 09:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. Personally for me I think it will be too much for a first date. It'll be all your family and friends there and that can be overwhelming. You should do it on a neutral ground, like dinner or drinks. And my personal value system is I don't bring anyone around my family until I know they are decent people (not saying she's not!) and a good friend.
2007-05-30 09:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by latinlilii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's the best idea, unless you have no one else coming to your graduation. She will be put on the spot with all of your family who may also feel like she's an intruder. Maybe instead, tell her that the two of you can go out that evening or on another night.
2007-05-30 09:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by SunnyMoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my humble opinion - no that's not a good idea. I mean come on dude graduations are boring and are really only worthwhile for parents. You gotta have a date where a really good first impression is made not the snoozefest of a graduation - good luck!
2007-05-30 09:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by psyflops_gazelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her afterwards... dont take her to the grad... not to say it is boring, but she doesnt know you that well being a first date, so why would she have interest in it....especially if you are graduating she wont be able to sit with you more than likely right?
2007-05-30 09:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by hardworkinmama1125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider that a first date. You can invite the girl to your graduation..but don't ever tell anyone you took someone to your graduation for a first date. I would think you were very cheap!
2007-05-30 09:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldnt consider that a first date. Maybe the after party could be the first date.
2007-05-30 09:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋