Is it really considerd cheating if you dont know that you are? Example:
Your dating a guy (We will call him guy A)
You go to the mall with a guy just hanging out(Guy B) Guy B says he's happy you finally agreed to be more then just friends.
Your at a restruant with a friend (Guy C) when (Guy D) shows up and says "Why are you dating my girlfriend?" And Guy C says "Because shes my girlfriend.
Does that sound like I actually led any of those guys on? I never said I would date anyof them. In fact Guy D is my X, Guy C is my best friends X, and Guy B is just a friend who Ive told multiple times I wasnt going to date. Do you thik Guy A (My boyfriend) has grounds to break up with me?
2007-05-30 08:35:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just thought I would clear up that I dont want to play the field! Ive been friends with these guys forever! And all of a sudden Im d8ing three more than I can handle! I didnt want it! Im just their friend!
2007-05-30 08:45:51 · update #1
I didnt relize that because Im sudenly in a relationship I cant hang out with my friends of a different sex.I also didnt relize that because Im in a relationship that I have to do EVERYTHING with my bf and that Im not aloud my own life away from him.
2007-05-30 08:56:00 · update #2
To answer wests question: Im 18 A(My bf) is 19, B(friend) is 18, C (I hvnt a clue, prbly 17), And D is (my ex) 19
2007-05-30 09:12:08 · update #3
I think you know the answer. Of course you can continue to have all your friends, boys and girls. Anyone that try's to stop you is insecure and controlling. I dont know whats going on with the other 3. They all sound tapped. Be clear your just friends, and they will just have to deal with it. If they continue makeing demands on you, have a short break from them and your real friends will still be there when your ready
2007-05-30 13:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not your "friend" if they want more. Sorry hon, but most of the time, a guy wants more than to be your friend.
No you didn't cheat, but I would reccommend not hanging out with them until they get the picture. Also, how old are you and these people because doesn't sound like they have a definition of what a girlfriend and boyfriend is....
2007-05-30 09:07:39 · answer #2 · answered by west 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHAHAHAHAH so out of the first part of the alphabet you slept with all of them right? What are you doing going to dinner with your best friends ex-boyfriend? Why would go to the mall with Guy B when you've already to attempted to established that you're just friends and that you weren't going to date. Yes you've lead them all on. Yes he has every right to drop your trifling butt off. But then again I'm sure any of your best friend's ex-boyfriends will be more then happy to pick the trash.
Thank you for the dumbest question I've answered today!
2007-05-30 08:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by ejapaga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is all confusing and you should have not dealt with anyone except the one that you were supposed to be in a relationship with - you probably sent signals that you were with b, c, d and x and they had not clue if you did not communicate to them that you were not in a relationship with them. I would let all of them know, I am with one guy and it is a the rest of you are just friends and casual acquaintances. You will be surprised at how much guys gossip and sometimes lie to make it seem like they did somethings that they didn't and they probably told a that they did and he is c-ing his way out.
2007-05-30 08:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by justaboutpeace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a ****. Give it a break. If you're leading these guys on, then check yourself! You need to be honest and open with everyone. If you want to be friends then just say that and leave the boyfriend or date word out of your vocabulary.
2007-05-30 08:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by eva2devine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You technically never did any-ting. Guy B needs to get real C and D Sound like Retards and Guy A hopefully understands all this confusion
2007-05-30 08:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by dark_wolf_228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it seems that u did something else with guys B, C, and D that let them believe that u were their girlfriend....technically u were not cheating but nobody would be happy if his girlfriend is going out with 3 differents guys...or maybe u are not taking ur relationship with guy A seriosly enough.
2007-05-30 09:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by SWEET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are quite that dumb, you already know the answer to your question. If A is the one, than you have no business being around B, C or D with out A...........
2007-05-30 08:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he should dump you and get on with his life. If you want to play the field, fine. But you can't have it both ways.
2007-05-30 08:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by linda h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl he kinda dose because all of those guys thought u lead them on u need to apologize to your boyfriend and tell him there was nuthing going on between thoughs guys and u
2007-05-30 08:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋