This weekend I met a cool guy that's from another state (about 4-6 hours away) We were staying at the same hotel and he would just come up and hang out with me. Well on the last day there I got completely drunk and did a lot of crazy things. He stayed there with me and comforted me and even tried to call an ambulance because I got really sick but my friends wouldn't let him. I kind of bugged him that night and wasn't sober enough to tell him goodbye and my friends said that i scared him a little. I really liked the guy and wanted to apologize but didn't get the chance. Should I call him or hit him up or myspace or something to do that or should i just leave it alone?
2007-05-30 06:44:17 · 18 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it go. You acted like a crazy, sick, out of control drunk. Some people don't like people like that. Don't try to chase him down- you blew it.
2007-05-30 06:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pretty much assume the combination of him being in another state and the fact that during your short encounter with him you got hammered and out of control would be two huge red flags to him. Would it be worth the effort to find hime and apologize? Maybe. Will you probably see him again? No. Even if you were to get in contact with him and even if he was to visit it would just be an interstate booty call and nothing else. Swallow your pride on this one and let it go.
2007-05-30 13:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by ejapaga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should contact him to apologize. He probably liked the sober you. Sounds like a nice guy to think of callin an ambulance instead of tryin to take advantage. Good Luck.
2007-05-30 13:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Luvly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are going to continue to be 'scary' then you should leave it alone. But if you want to explain things-then go ahead. I think MySpace is a good idea, because then there isn't so much pressure on either of you.
2007-05-30 13:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave it there. What is in the past is in the past. You were not in your right state of mind. If he wanted things to go further he would have called you. Just move on and try not to make the same mistakes again.
2007-05-30 13:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely apologies to him and see what his reaction is..
If he leaves the door open for communication with him, walk through it..
But if he kind of Say's "hey no problem, take care of yourself"...It's his way of saying, glad I could help but see ya around..
Good Luck...And take heart in knowing, we've all done crazy things, your not alone..
2007-05-30 13:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by Innisfil g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it would make you feel better, call him and apologize. Who knows what the future holds. You may be opening up a relationship. Maybe he likes you. You won't know if you don't make a move to contact him.
2007-05-30 13:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him and act like nothing happened. When you go out again apologize for being such a drunk idiot.
2007-05-30 13:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Hoptoad City 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't hurt. Just explain how you explained it to us. I'm sure he'll understand. Long as it's not a reg thing. Alcohol can make us do some crazy things, lol. =)
2007-05-30 13:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by Amy L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should apologize to him through whatever means and then leave it alone. You screwed up.
2007-05-30 13:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by ☼♫Hmm..Interesting♪☼ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋