I am confused. He has a long distance girlfriend which I didn't know about. He insists we stay in touch, and it has went to the physical. I understand everything, even though it hurts so very much, but I'm not sure of him right now. More importantly, I think if I stayed away, he could think clearly and do what he needs to do for himself. I don't want to be the other woman, and I don't want to question. Advice please. Thanks.
2007-05-30 06:12:23 · 15 answers · asked by And My Soul Flies 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though he is hurting you, I can tell that you still want what is best for him.
You are a good woman, and he is privileged to have had someone like you love him.
But he surely can't expect you to stay in a physical relationship with him while he is still with this other girl??
That is not kind!
That is not loving.
He should make his decision, one or the other. You don't have to be mean about it, because I can tell you don't want to hurt him. But don't be a doormat for him! Be firm, he needs to respect you, and know that you will not accept being his second best.
2007-05-30 06:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by heaven eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in a relationship with another girl whether long distance or not, this should tell you he is cheating and yes, you should walk away as he is not respecting the relationship he had with you. He wants to stay in touch to use you for sex because his girl is too far away to provide him with it. You know you deserve better than this.
2007-05-30 13:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a cheater, plain and simple. He hid his girlfriend from you. What else is he hiding? This isn't some romantic comedy where we can make the cheater into the good guy. He can't be trusted. I would tell him never to call me again and find a man who's going to be forthcoming and dignified.
2007-05-30 13:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a long distance girlfriend, not only should you walk away, but you shouldn't even bother finding out what he needs to do. You can do better. I guarantee it.
2007-05-30 13:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should walk away. Imagine being in his girlfriend's situtation, to find out that your boyfriend has been cheating on you. Don't you worry about him, just get your own life on track. You can do so much better than being his second best.
2007-05-30 13:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he needs time to think clearly, I think you do. You need to think whether you want to stay with a person that would cheat on you. Whether it has gotten physical or not, the emotional betrayal is still there.
In my opinion, you should dump him, but you need to examine your feelings for him first.
2007-05-30 13:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you Love something let it go.......
And if the snake comes crawling back on his belly, after getting rid of the long distance girlfriend then make the decision then.
2007-05-30 13:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time & space - if you guys are ment to be together - someday - you will be - dont pester him - it will drive him further away - respect his wishes & he will respect you.
Good luck x
2007-05-30 13:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by MinibabeUK73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know the answer to your own question . i don't know why you are still with him find someone you can trust and follow your heart. good luck
2007-05-30 13:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by keith e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
physical is nothing to do with the fact of love, if you love him then fight for it, if not the case, walk away and don't getting annoyed. not worth it..
2007-05-30 13:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋