I was dating him for about 2 1/2 years, we've been broken up for about 5 months now. We broke up because I just needed a break because he was moving too fast & getting to serious, & that scared me; eventhought I do want to be with him. I guess the whole idea kinda scared me at first. Now that I have had time to think about things...I know I want to be with him...The thing is I dont know how to get him back or even tell him I want him back. Because every time I would run into him somewhere...Idk if he would pretend or something but it seemed as if hes moved on... Idk if its just me...but I havent been able to move on & it would defenately surprise me if he has...so...Any suggestions??? Im scared!!! HELP!!!!
2007-05-30 06:11:37 · 7 answers · asked by sexychikalatina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has move on, you had your chance and now you need to move on too.
Please don't be a typical woman and hurt some guy only to change your mind later. You damaged him and the relationship beyond repair. Sorry but it's over now and so is he. Do him a favor and move on, you can only hurt him again if you try to get him back.
2007-05-30 06:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not call him out of the blue. You never know what state of mind he is in or if he is with another girl. So forget that idea.
You need to send some signals to him through his mother, his friends, or someone close to him. Just let them know that you are ready to mend your relationship.
The important point is that you need to let him know that you realize you acted irrationaly. 2-1/2 years is a long time and he was not moving in too fast!!!
But don't push it and don't bother him. Just send some clear signals and if wants to take the rope again, fine. If not, let it go, no matter how much it hurts.
Good luck.
2007-05-30 06:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tourang B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL YOU KINDA BRUISED HIS EGO. KNOW THE TABLE HAS TURNED. IT SEEMS LIKE HE WANTED TO BE WITH YOU. BUT YOU DID THE RIGHT THING YOU HAVE TO GIVE YOURSELF TIME BEFORE YOU GIVE HIM THAT TIME. YOU CAN DO A SURPRISE POP UP AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. YOU CAN CALL HIM UP AND ASK HIM TO MEET YOU SOMEWHERE AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL. ARE DONT TELL HIM AT ALL. I THINK THE BEST THING IS TO A SURPRISE POP UP. BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT ON A DAY WERE YOU KNOW HIS ALONE. THEN ASK HIM HOW HE FEEL ALOT HAPPENS IN 5 MONTHS BUT IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HES NOT OVER IT. HES JUST PRETENDING.
2007-05-30 06:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st it's your fuelt..he was moving too fast?!! they'r 2 1/2 years for god sake!!!
2nd the only thing you can do is to talk to him about it and just tell him..good luck with that.
2007-05-30 06:36:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him out. If he says he wants nothing to do with you, then you blew it, game over, please insert another coin. The longer you wait, the more likely it is he will start seeing someone else, so pick up the phone today.
2007-05-30 06:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by 006 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Swallow your pride and call him and ask him if you can get together with him and talk..
Then tell him everything that's on your mind and see what he Say's, take it from there..
Good Luck Hon..
2007-05-30 06:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by Innisfil g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might understand if you talk to him. If you want him back you have to talk to him.
2007-05-30 06:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Madi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋