2007-05-30 06:10:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you guys have been together long enough then you should be able to talk to him about marriage and children. So just bring it up and see what he thinks.
2007-05-30 06:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say things like that to hiim he'll likely run screaming off into the night...
But you might ask him how he feels about children and committment.
And stay on birth control. Just because YOU want kids NOW - doesn't mean that he does. And if you entrap him with a surprise pregnancy - well, that's really asking for trouble.
How about just taking a cold shower and forgetting the kids and marriage thing until he brings it up?
2007-05-30 06:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told mine after 3 years, very nicely, that I feel that I'm at the age that I want to get married because I'll be want to think about children soon. I said, if he does not feel the same (after 3 years, he should know if he wants to marry me or not), please let me know so I can move on and find the man I am suppose to be with. I never pestered him or hinted to him. I told him nicely the one time. I didn't discuss it with him any further. I just said it and then changed the subject. It worked! We just got married two weekends ago!
2007-05-30 06:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been with your boyfriend? If you just started dating, I am afraid that he may think you are a psycho!
You should talk about it with him. Marriage and children are a huge responsibility. It is something that both of you will need to agree on. If you both agree that having a life together is something you both want...then him popping the question will come. Just don't rush him. Men are very sensitive about making that commitment.
2007-05-30 06:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by rozie06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want him to leave, you don't. All kidding aside, talk to him about your relationship and where he see's it going. I'm sure all that stuff is on the horizon but that's about it, on the horizon. Men don't liked to be forced into situations, so the easier you are on the question, the easier it will be to get an answer.
2007-05-30 06:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by umph_mcgee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your feelings, without giving him the pressure.
This depends on how long you have been together, if you are shacking up, how old and how educated the two of you are, etc.
2007-05-30 06:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that close and ready to get married, then he ask you. Men do like to be the one to ask. i know it is old fashioned but if you ask I am sure he will bring it up later. Men are like that in the end.They like to think it was their idea.
2007-05-30 06:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by Marilyn T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, i mean, u are dating him so u must be comfortable around him.....ok, so it really does depend on how long u've been dating b/c if it's only like a month then u should probably wait....u don't want to scare him off! good luck
2007-05-30 06:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you're old enough for it. Then just tell him.
2007-05-30 06:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him like you are doing right now.
2007-05-30 06:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by joy s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋