ok my friend really likes this guy named ben, and she has asked him out 5 times and he has says no !! she gets soooooo sad. wat should i do to make him say yes ????
2007-05-30 04:57:48 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him the heck alone!
2007-05-30 04:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by yodadoe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant make a guy say yes. cuz then if he gos out with her its only going 2 be in pitty an then she will really get hurt. i know ur just trying 2 be a good friend, but just leave it alone stay out of it. or just tell ur friend that there are plenty of other better looking guys out there an she should just find some one new, move on. obyously he said no the first 2 times what makes her think hes going 2 say yes the 5th time? whats it going 2 take 4 her to get it.??
2007-05-30 05:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by AUBRIE L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am 23 and i have been in this position before but with a girl. The best thing to do is take Ben to one side and ask him out straight, Do you have any feelings for my friend. If he replies NO!! you need to ask him to let your friend down in a nice way like on his own not in front of all his mates so they can have a good laugh. Then what you need to do is give your friend the support she needs do stuff, like go out, have a girls night in watching comedy movies!!!!!!!! not romantic big mistake you get my drift take her mind as much as possible of Ben. she might not ever forget Ben but she will learn to cope with him i hope this helps o if he say YES!! well leave that to them
2007-05-30 05:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by NOTONMYOWN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ben obviously does not want anyting to do with your friend so he is not going to say yes even if you ask him a 100 more times. Tell your friend that if she wants him bad enough she is just gonna have to play hard to get or look for another guy. You and your friend are looking very desperate by asking him out numerous times and that is a major turn off to most guys.
2007-05-30 05:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't say yes the first 5 times what makes you think he will suddenly change his mind? Realize that in this world we find people physically attractive, which is completely subjective. Perhaps he doesn't see your friend as atractive in his own slanted persception. Tell her to move onto some guy who wants to be with her instead of trying to force a guy who doesn't want to date her.
2007-05-30 05:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you really care about your friend, but if the other guy has refused 5 times and gets pressured to go out with your friend, she might get hurt even worse. I say let it go and find someone new.....
2007-05-30 05:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing....He has made it very clear five times that he is not interested in your friend....There are better fish in the sea for her. Unfortuantely you cant force someone to go out or like someone when they aint feeling them.
What if blows up in your face, where your friend gets angry and finds out you got him to go out with her under certain conditions.
Bay-bee girl needs to get over him and move on. You just be there for your girl and support her...She deserves better right?
2007-05-30 05:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lil Miss Lis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make him say yes, you can't make him do anything. i think it would be better if they didn't go out if he doesn't like her, because if he doesn't then he will break up with her and then she will be even more hurt. i think she should just stop asking him if she's asked him out 5 times already then he's probably getting annoyed. she should just stay single and continue to like him even though they aren't going out. sometimes it's better that way
2007-05-30 05:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by ☠Rockerchick☠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really do anything.... if he does not like her then you dont want to make him pretend and make her sad do you?
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you can keep trying... try to have your friend impress him in a big group of friends, then go out again and have her talk to the entire group, and not single him out at all and not really pay attention. Finally once she has got him hooked, she should "rock the stadium of his heart"!
2007-05-30 05:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Geek In The Pink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested honey. Leave him alone and get your friend to move on and focus her attention elsewhere. The more she asks, the less interested (and probably more rude) he'll become.
Not everyone we like is going to like us back. That's just life.
2007-05-30 05:01:06 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to make somebody like you without his will, i have experienced a similar situation myself. She should not ask him again and look desperate say to her to smile at him and be friendly. If he does not react try to find somebody else for her in order to forget him. Another idea is to talk to a friend of him and ask him to talk to him about your friend. Good luck !!!!!!
2007-05-30 05:04:16 · answer #11 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋