i know this guy and i really like him sooo i invited him to my house just to hang out ( & thats all that happened) and i told my boyfriend about it but my friend said that he didn't hear me so now he's mad at me and some of my friends think it's wrong and that i shouldn't have done that
2007-05-30 04:52:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's ok to have a friend, male or female. it you so talking too or haveing friends then you will be lost. i bet his friends come to his house
2007-05-30 04:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now when you say that you like this guy, I'm assuming that you mean that it is in a romantic or sexual sense. You didn't really clarify that point.
Think of it this way. Your boyfriend has feelings for another girl, so he brings her over to his house to hang out by themselves. They claim that nothing happened, but you have no way of knowing if it's true or not. Wouldn't that make you mad?
What you did was wrong. Even if nothing happened, the fact is that it could have happened. You invited him to be alone with you, & that sounds like you really wanted to be with him. It's encouraging yourself to cheat.
Now if it's a platonic friendship, then that's slightly different. It is possible to have guy friends that you are not romantically or sexually interested in. Just try to respect your boyfriend's feelings. You would be just as uncomfortable if he had another girl alone with him (even if they were just friends), so why is it automatically ok for you? Reassure your boyfriend that you have no interest in this guy, & that next time this guy comes over, it will be with a group of other people.
2007-05-30 05:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you think it's right, only if your boyfriend does. Fact is it's not right, this guy is interested in you for reasons other than just being a friend. Your boyfriend will know that is true, this guys knows that and deep down you do too.
You need to decide if you want this new guy or your old one, but you can't have guys over...it's wrong.
2007-05-30 04:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You invited a friend over to your house, it's perfectly harmless. If you guys ended up having sex then yeah it'd be a big deal but you didn't so there's no problem.
2007-05-30 04:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to invite anyone you want to come over to your house. If your boyfriend and your friends are so immature they can't handle that, then tough boogies to them.
2007-05-30 04:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's one thing to have a guy come over to your house. it's totally different if you have a guy you like come over to your house. if you have a lot of self-control and don't see yourself cheating on your boyfriend with him, then i guess it's pretty harmless, just be careful.
and don't get drunk with him....
2007-05-30 05:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have done that , that is the samething as cheating, you should have ask your boyfriend of what he thinks about it first.
2007-05-30 06:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should talke to bf 1st, invitied him over when bf was there. i would have been upset too if you had another guy over your house while i wasn't there.
2007-05-30 15:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so because i did that and it led into other things and it was not good
2007-05-30 04:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋