I have been involved with a hot black man, sex is something out of this world, trust, we have meet three times and has not been in contact since. Due to work committments as he lives in London so he is 3hrs away from me. Would you trust this?
2007-05-30 04:32:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
once you open your legs, they dont really need to wine and dine you.
he has another girlfriend he is probably taking seriously. run fast friend. i have been in your shoes
2007-05-30 04:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he's a typical guy, that demands sex period from women and just leave somewhere. These days if someone is really making a committment, of making a intimate relationship last he has to prove, that he really wants you for who you are.
However if he has important business obligations, somewhere across the counrty or overseas at least have him, show you work related documents. That way you can gain his trust. Sometimes men can be quite manipulative.
2007-05-30 05:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by slimdude142 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Biologically to reproduce men just need to lay their seed. The more partners they do this with the more chance of successful offspring they have. Females on the other hand need security for child rearing since it requires much more sacrifice to reproduce on their part. Females therefore are looking for a mate that will stay until the child is raised, whereas men are looking for more options. Hence men's famed fear of commitment. Orgasms raise our hormone levels that help in pair bonding, so there is a chance he won't wander girls if you keep him sexually satisfied :) PS. Incidentally the man's priority to find good looking women, and their love of visual stimuli is because we are looking for mates that exude good health for child bearing - the fittest, healthiest looking women (bikini's anyone?). Women on the other hand are looking for high status (personality, success) in addition to health as these offer the security mentioned. THAT'S why we like porn, miniskirts and can't help but check out other women - it's instinctive - just like the girls will check out the dominant, leader guy in the room.
2007-05-30 05:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by DaveO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a booty call to me. If you gave it out on the first date he probably thinks you're slutish. You most likely will never be his girlfriend. Guys don't respect girls who just give it out! If you're just in it for the sex then continue on!!!
2007-05-30 04:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by THEMURPHSTER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Black or white good or bad face the fact that you've been had!.. put it down to experience and move on with your life!
2007-05-30 04:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i wouldnt trust it... hes just in it 4 the good sex!!!
just 4 get about him an move on, unless thats all u want from him is sex then be my guest.
2007-05-30 04:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by AUBRIE L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its Long Distance Sweety... It might be fun and good right now, but at the long run its not worth your time.! Sorry to say.
2007-05-30 04:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by grillo_14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after unattached sex and ejaculation men have nothing else to look 4,its just Mens behaviour and natural
2007-05-30 05:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hin so u shoul build up trus and before the sex and hen get in bed... and if it would be something serious he would spend more time with u...
2007-05-30 04:40:12 · answer #9 · answered by kittypretty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL - If this is the same guy from your earlier question, he can't really stay the night now, can he?
2007-05-30 04:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋