that some girl, not even really atractive ones, can get all the guys? like they always have so many around and just pluck up a bf whenever they dump... one they have another few just waiting around? is it just cuz the guys wanna sleep with them and it's not a comittment? 2nd of all....so just cuz i don't wanna have sex before i'm married could that be why guys aren't that easy for me to get? cuz they know they aren't getting any from me? ....just wondering....
2007-05-30 04:07:56 · 20 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself,and a blessing will come your way.
2007-05-30 05:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by James S55$$ where I give you ME. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like people who like people - the girls that usually catch my eye (and the eye of most men I know) are those that are outgoing and fun to be around, witty and maybe a touch flirty. Looks are great - but most guys would pick a fun pretty girl over a dull beautiful one (well, most guys worth dating anyway).
As for the sex before marriage thing - well yes, that would be a handicap in finding a boyfriend. My advice - it's not a good idea. Sex is a fantastic and multi-layered experience, and its a journey that needs to be taken on more than one path. Sexual compatibility is so important to a relationship that it is a huge gamble to get married before you understand what sex is like for you, and what it is like with the person you are marrying. You don't have to have a string of one-night-stands, but really think about the no sex before marriage thing - I think it would be a big mistake and you would regret it in later life.
2007-05-30 11:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by jake h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a girl around that will put her legs behind her head for any guy that is around, the guy is going to go for that. Only because the guy is just an immature hornball. Stick with your convictions honey, guys change as they get older and it will play out better for you in the long run. You won't be pregnant, have gotten a STD and when a guy does finally get you, it won't be like throwing a hot dog down a hallway like all those other girls spreading it for every guy on the football team......
2007-05-30 11:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is usually the reason girls can get guys. I too have made a commitment to save myself until marriage and it is tough seeing the easy girls get all the attractive guys, but just think: do you really want to be attractive to those guys? Guys that are (to put it lightly) man-whores that just like girls for their bodies are not the types that would honor your chastity and virtue. I am constantly thinking: "what does that girl have that I don't?", but it's not that she has something I don't, it's that I have something she doesn't: self-respect and high standards. A lot of people will respect you because you are willing to wait for the right person and give him everything you have. Think about it: what can you give the person you marry if you have already given your virginity up to someone else? You give other guys love, you kiss them, you can give them your heart, but if you keep yourself for the one you end up with, you can literally give them everything; and that in itself is totally worth it. :)
2007-05-30 11:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Reea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is not because you don't want to have sex untill you are married that guys aren't that easy for you to get. I think you shouldn't be so anxious to get a bf your time will come. I think it's a good Idea that you stay a virgin till marriage it's hard to find someone that is still a virgin now in days.
2007-05-30 11:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Totsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea... guys like chicks that give it up. But after awhile, and I mean a long while, guys want a chick to settle down with...and not the village bicycle. Youll do good in the long run. And if you dont give it up before marriage, then you know that the guy you get is a good one...cuz he stayed with you without ever even getting booty.
2007-05-30 11:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. But the true reason is that some girls like that just find getting guys for attention, because maybe there life is not like yours. Maybe you have a family that cares about what you do, and they don't. And yes, some guys date girls just for sex. probably, but always keep that commitment, because once it's gone it's not coming back.
2007-05-30 11:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by angelfacesrg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, maybe it could b 4 that reason, or just because shes popular, two, thats only for somepeople, if u were cute 2 me, i would probably date u, dont need 2 b a dime piece or have had sex or not, just needed to have a good head on ur shoulders. it all depends.
2007-05-30 11:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by ~Ramd 5wa99Arific~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is good that you want to wait until your married. its the christian thing to do. most guys dont want a relationship if they aint getting any, but that ok, they will pay in the long run. if you wait until your married, you will make the best partner anybody could ever ask for
2007-05-30 12:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by wvstud22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that women think it's hard to find a man? Women have all the odds stacked in their favor. Men have to rely on charm and luck.
2007-05-30 11:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because not all men are shallow a.s.s. holes. its not all about the looks.... and second maby there ihing wrong with u, not all guys cair wether u want 2 have sex or not. maby ur doing somthing wrong an thats why ur not geting any guys. sorry 2 be blunt!!!!
2007-05-30 11:19:39 · answer #11 · answered by AUBRIE L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋