okay.... so this guy and i have been seeing eachother for like... i dunno maybe 2 months. we are together, bf/gf sort of thing. and exclusive. we have been friends for a couple years, but not like close friends. now, we are really close. i really like him. a lot. we are both very christian, and rather religious. we are saving sex. so that is not anything that we are worried about. however, i totally want one of us to make a move. kiss, hold hands.... something. his religion although cristian, has some different views on things... pda being one of them.
do you think it would be okay if i made a move? if so... how do i go about it, so that we arnt uncomfortable, and so that he doesnt have his pride stepped on.? or how do i give him hints that he should make a move?
2007-05-30 04:05:34 · 4 answers · asked by smcopeland16 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say you should make a move...it takes the pressure off the guy to make the move...i always wish the girl could make the move first, dont worry about stepping on his pride i dont think he'll mind after you guys kiss he'll probably be relieved
2007-05-30 04:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by shenderson2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him to make a move, if you want to move further, go for it!!
Put your head on his shoulder when you're sitting together or something innocent, and just step it up from there. He'll tell you to stop if he wants to.
2007-05-30 11:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by 006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with little things. Kiss his hand or cheek, stuff like that. Eventually he should get that you want him to kiss you, if not then kiss him.
2007-05-30 11:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by fallen_angel_0_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur going to make it just be urself and make sure he know what ur doing...just take his hand while ur walking or when ur sitting, lean over and kiss him.........i read this somewhere but for him to kiss you- look at his eyes then his lips and back to his eyes three times
2007-05-30 11:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by corkydw89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋