just wondering why this happens cause its happened to me several times now and when i think somethings going to work out this has occured and completely messes my head up!
I can't work out if im just unlucky or if it's my fault??
2007-05-30 04:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by malteser_max 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The evil you know vs. the evil you don't? Sometimes people only remember the good parts of a relationship. And after the drama has subsided they aren't as angry or upset at their ex so it looks like a good idea.
Also people who enter a relationship right after leaving one almost never stay with the new person long. I would say don't date someone who just broke up.
2007-05-30 04:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going back to an ex is easier than starting a new relationship because it's familiar, you're used to the person and maybe they believe that they can change whatever went wrong... I think putting yourself out there and trusting new people can be intimidating, but i think anyone who has taken a trip into the past figures out really quickly that the past is there for a reason. I think it's harder to imagine the light at the end of the tunnel...so often people go back to a secure place. I actually think this does happen a lot. Not that it ever really works but it does happen a lot even if it's those few phone calls just to hear a comforting voice after you've broken up with someone.
2007-05-30 04:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by beyondeyezcanc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely because they have a history with their ex. And rather than starting something new, it's alot easier to go back to someone who you know all about and are comfortable with.
2007-05-30 04:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by queencolleen137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the women I know have gone back to their Ex. They usually leave them for good reasons.
2007-05-30 04:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are picking the wrong women cause none of my friends have ever gone back with their exs . also could be cause they are scared of new relationships and the old ones are familiar and secure to them . I know it is weird . good luck .
2007-05-30 04:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's territory they have already mastered. They don't have to start from scratch again. A lot of people would be more comfortable with it because they know how to act already.
2007-05-30 04:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Questionable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safety blanket. They figure they have been there once and know all about it, so they cruise right back. New is scary to some...
2007-05-30 04:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by Big D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, maybe vows do mean something to people!!
2007-05-30 04:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by jonesk_92656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋