so bad tempered and snappy, my partner on one hand is truely wonderful, he cooks cleans(sometimes), buys me things looks after my daughter, yet if he is moody he snapps at me, if someone upsets him he snapps at me. yesterday we were in a hurry, he was dropping me off at the train station, but i had a call, when i tried to make another call, he shouts at me that we needed to go, he was in no hurry it was me who needed to go but also to make an important call.
also he buys me a bottle of wine, packet of ciggs, after my exam the other day, i drank the whole bottle felt fine not drunk at all, yet he will buy me these things then moan at me for drinking it, what am i to do??
when he is like this i feel that he doesn't respect me enough to talk normally to me, i know i am a pian in the neck about respect but would you consider this as disrespect the snapping i mean???
2007-05-30 03:48:34 · 10 answers · asked by lost Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So because your man snaps at you, that means all men do that?
Clearly he doesn't respect you, and since you still want him you must not really mind. What you are failing to realize is it doesn't matter why he snaps at you. This is the way he is and will never get better. Either accept this behavior or get a new man.
2007-05-30 03:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow u are a spoil brat sorry
u have a guy who does this for u (many men dont do this)
he s probably upset at u cuz u r takin him for granted
the snapping at u when u was on the phone when he was driving u to the train was because he wanted ur attention and u wasnt giving it to him but u were distracted, u r probably saying but i need to get this call. come on, this man needs attention. in ur question i have yet to hear what u do for this man, u mention he brought u wine, and u drank, he probably snapp at u cuz he wanted either to drink it with u or for some courtesy for u to save him some
GREEDY! change up ur act or u will lose him cuz there will be some other woman out there that will give him something in return
dont sleep on that
2007-05-30 10:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by simple J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has been going on for so many years, even back in the centuries men and women always ask others, why are women this and we ask why are men that? It is just in our nature to never be happy with one another and there are always going to be problems no matter how happy you are in your relationship. I have been with the same guy for 5 years and we are engaged, you just explained to me my fiancee...hope it's not the same guy..LOL, just kidding. Anyways I think that to a certain extent it is a little bit disrespectful, but we are too in a way. As long as he is not hitting or drinking uncontrolably, then I would just put it in the back of your mind that he is having a bad day. I am sure that there are things that you do that he has a problem with and gets annoyed, then sometimes you just have to tell them to shutup. There are other times, where they just want to be left alone. I don't care what anyone says men have mood swings, just as women do, and we just have to learn to take the good with the bad.
2007-05-30 10:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Mrs. Graham ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although we know it's not true men really do have their time of the month. Trust me!! Think about it are you not snappy ever or does it show up once a month?? My husband blamed me for us missing our flight thanks to all the traffic on the highway but of course we all know that i myself called everybody in one city and told them to make sure to cause a traffic jam while we were on our way to the airport. That's just how some men are. Moody just like us. Don't worry it get better with time. When he's in a mood just leave him be to get over it. That's how I am i would rather be left alone to deal with what ever it is that i'm upset about than be bothered cause that just makes me more upset.
2007-05-30 10:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sasha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would call in disrespect in a sense, i mean people are aload to have a moan every now and then... but it seems hes doin it quite often
what you should do, is sit down with him when you both are calm and talk about it, ask him why he does it, and how it makes you feel, he sounds like a nice enough guy so he shud listen to you
2007-05-30 10:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bickering is a perfectley normal part of healthy relationships. Only robotic couples dont have some sort of strain in their interactions. If he starts giving you the ol backhanded love tap, or insulting your puppy or your grandma, then theres a problem. Whenever you are second guessing a guys attitude or "snappyness" just remember this one simple thing...P.M.S. case closed
2007-05-30 10:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to talk about your feeling.
Tell him what you feel when he yells at you.
Tell him you love him so much but you really need him to listen to you. Dont let him talk when your explaining yourself. Let him close his mouth and really listen to what you have to say.
If he will not listen and talk when your talking then its not RESPECT your right.
Then what you need to do, is tell him your only giving him one chance to actually RESPECT you, and tell him you will not be treated that way. Every women/mom deserves respect.
2007-05-30 10:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me like he does a lot fo you and gets no recognition. Maybe doing something for him would get him in a better mood.
2007-05-30 11:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are having premarital sex telling your daughter it's okay to be someone's free prostitute because...? This will only get worse.
2007-05-30 10:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would, you need find someone else, sounds like something is really bugging him, but is not willing to share that
2007-05-30 10:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by SteveO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋