What do you think?

Question

I am a very attractive woman, and has beed independant for a while. I have everything going for myself right now, like a house a car and 3 children. I can be aggressive at times because it comes with life experiences. What type of man you think is best for me a aggressive man or a laid back man type.

Answer 1

First of all, how do you mean "aggressive or laid back". If you mean antagonistic or agreeable, I would say you need to cure yourself of being antagonistic first, because very few guys are going to want to stay with an antagonistic woman who is always picking fights for very long. If you mean sexually, I would say most likely aggressive, as he would have the same spirit of sexual adventure you do. However, an aggressive man may not want a woman who already has 3 kids, so if you're looking for someone to fulfill the stepfather role, the laid back guy might be better suited for this.

Which brings me to my second point. Normally, I'm telling women they need to have more confidence, but in your case, I have to go to the opposite extreme. To a lot of men, already having 3 kids & having everything going for yourself makes about as much sense as the term "jumbo shrimp". I'm single, no kids, & I own my own house, car, & motorcycle. On top of that, I have a great career & am in college attempting to obtain yet another degree to further increase my earning potential. So, if you are dating men like that, you might want to find out what the majority of them think of a woman with 3 kids, because many of us would consider this, at least at first, something we have to deal with, not a great bonus. I mean no insult to you by saying that, but hope to give you some insight. I'd recommend looking for men who either really want kids, or who already have at least one of their own & have already stepped into that role of added responsibility. Otherwise, you'll find men who just aren't looking for the ready-made family you bring to the table. Best of luck.

Answer 2

We it really depends on you i guess. Aggressive or not, it would all boil down to the question, "do you love him?" and does he love love you for who you are and what you are? I think it would be a shallow advice if i would choose one from your options. I think picking one from the choices would be a shallow reason for you to have a successful relationship. But if you are polling which is better for you, I would say the aggressive type too. Well it's one thing in common =)

Answer 3

Confidant laid back man who can take charge when he needs to and is comfortable turning over the reins when he needs to Hey that sound like me

Answer 4

sweetie i'd most definitly say laid back cause even if your aggressive it's only temorary and guys that are aggressive are awful to have if they stay like that especially if you hav children cuz theres lik a 50% chance he would a abuse them then so...hope this helps see ya

Answer 5

laid back because if you get aggressive you will be in arguments all the time and the children will be in danger or will be scared for life idk i think laid back is much better

Answer 6

if i were u i would get a man that likes the same thing u like that way yall can spend time together

Answer 7

i think the person you least expect will be the one to sweep you off your feet --- dont try to define who you think you are looking for --- i did and the lady i meet is nothing like the person i thought i was looking for ---- best wishes

Answer 8

I'd go with the laid back type! oposites attract my dear! and you won't bump heads!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

How about one that you love and are compatible with??
Sounds old fashioned but it just might work.....