Looking back over the past 2 years there have been times when I have been absolutely normal. There have been times when I have had the lowest lows imaginable, and times when I have been ecstatically over-the-moon. I have felt unworthy, ugly, unintelligent, and as though life is the dullest thing ever, and then pretty, confident, on-top-of-the-world, making extremely optimistic plans about the future. For the first time in my life I have felt as though I don't have control over myself and my life at times. I have been very confused about life in general, which I know is a normal thing to go through and sort out in oneself. There are times when I am paranoid, defend myself and argue during conversations, speak quickly and pressurised and sound incredibly passionate about something, but in the morning I won't even be bothered about it and don't know why I over-reacted. One time I frightened my boyfriend because I was laughing and crying at the same time.
Thanks for your help! x
2007-05-30 02:38:16 · 19 answers · asked by lexicute 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Talk to a counselor. In my experience, things that are happening affect peoples "mood swings". It could be mood swings, PMS, etc. As far as your feelings about yourself. Are different people/situations making you feel this way? A counselor would have to diagnosis you with bi-polar. However, they still don't know everything about it or other illnesses. Plenty of doctors have been wrong. Even if you do have it, it is not the end of the world. You sound like you need to also research some self-control techniques as well as positive thinking techniques. Whether you have BPD or not you will be the one who can most help yourself. Learn to take control of your life, as much as possible. Things happen to everyone. People who do well, are determined to help themselves and not let the situation get the best of them. You said very little about your boyfriend. I am just curious, because of my past experience, is he controlling you? I may be wrong. However, if he or anyone else is trying to control you, DON'T LET THEM. There is a certain respect you have to have. Control is not good at all. Why were you laughing and crying at the same time? Maybe there was a good reason. At any rate, if YOU don't feel "right", something is probably wrong. Good luck.
2007-05-30 02:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ann S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you bipolar? You should probably need to go to a psychologist for an actual diagnosis, or psychiatrist. There are various questions that they'd want to ask you to narrow it down. But, there could also be other factors leading to your mood swings. The symptoms you're describing could be brought on by stress or depression. Do you ever get suicidal?
There are also varying degrees of bipolar. I would suggest talking to someone. You easily be able to solve your problems with some talk or medication therapy. Best of luck. Taking your concerns seriously though.
2007-05-30 02:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by cacaca13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should probably talk to a medical professional about the way that you're feeling. It does sound like you have some pretty big mood swings and they might be able to help you keep things more even and less up and down. It sounds like you have a good understanding of what you're doing and the more you can communicate that to your doctor the better for you. Before your appointment, try to take note of when these things are occuring. Some women get this way due to monthly hormonal changes.
Good luck!
2007-05-30 02:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has feelings of happiness and sadness once in a while. Feeling high and feeling low are part of life.
But for someone with bipolar disorder (sometimes called manic depression), these feelings can be extreme:
These ups and downs can be too much for a person to cope with. They can interfere with daily life.
Sometimes they can even be dangerous.
The ups and downs
One day you may feel so depressed that you can't get out of bed. Work may seem impossible.
On another day you may feel great and full of endless energy. You may feel like you’re getting a lot done. But other people might think that what you are doing is dangerous and out of control.
If you get upset really fast on a regular bases, and over something that is meaningless, You may have bipolar, I have seen a daugter get upset with her mother because her mother said no to her requst, but she is bipolar, If you dont get upset on a regular bases, then you probably dont have bipolar, Talk to your parents, they will he you out a whole lot more then us on Yahoo Answers, if you think so go to a doctor with your parents and dont be emberessed about it,
2007-05-30 02:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sammwise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can go to the website that I attached and take a self-test for bipolar:
http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Depression/nimh/bipolar_screening_test.asp
It will tell you if you should see a doctor or not. If you are frustrated with your behavior and it disrupts your life then seeking help would be the best thing for you to do. A lot of people suffer with mental health problems so don't be embarassed about it. :) Getting the right therapist and medication will make a world of difference! I hope this helps!
2007-05-30 02:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by carissa m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be on the safe side, and to find out about why you react this way, get a pyschological evaluation. the doctors will test you and see if you do indeed have bipolar disorder. if so, they will put you on medications that will help control thie disorder. and if you are diagnosed as a bipolar, bipolars lead very normal lives. so don't let it get you down if that is the case. you have a wonderful life ahead of you, enjoy it. good luck. bipolar disease is not the end of the world if indeed you do have it.
2007-05-30 02:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tommys WIFEY 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can't diagnose you with bipolar disorder, but there is something going on. I have many of the same symptoms as you and am just diagnosed with severe biological clinical depression. The best thign for you is to go see a psychologist first (they dont' push meds but try to get to the root of the problem) and then if necessary see as psychiatrist for medication. But always try therapy first!
2007-05-30 02:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not unusual to have periods of feeling low or feeling great. We all do. But, if these periods are extreme and they are affecting your life, it would be best if you sought professional help. Even if they are not affecting all aspects of your life, talking to a professional will probably prove beneficial. I suggest a psychologist first, and he/she can tell you if you need to see a psychiatrist.
2007-05-30 02:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The symptoms you describe are strongly suggestive of Bipolar II. I really encourage you to schedule a thorough evaluation with both a psychiatrist and a psychologist.
Hang in there,
~M~
2007-05-30 02:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by michele 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do yourself a favor and consult a specialist - either a therapist or psychologist and share with them what you have been observing on yourself over these past two years and prior to that. if you are bipolar, then they could help you regain this control you feel you might be losing. but basically, its a matter of perception of whether you feel you have control or not over your own actions.
2007-05-30 02:44:24 · answer #10 · answered by ninjai 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋