ihad this bf he would go out with me intill he finds another girl and then break up with me and that girl breaks up with him he just comes back to me to find another what do i do
2007-05-30 00:26:00 · 17 answers · asked by truelove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he needs a taste of his own medicine!
When he is feeling down next because one of his new girlfriends have found out he is a user and he comes crying to you, say something to this affect 'listen (his name), i can't always be the girl you come to everytime you need someone to comfort you, i have feelings and emotions and your walking all over them, i'm not a toy i'm a person and you don't treat me with respect, i'm not going to be the girl you can just pick up and throw away when you feel like it anymore, i'm better than that and i can do better than you'... ok hunni, got it, he is a user and it's about time he realised your not just there to be used and you deserve better, u deserve respect girl!
2007-05-30 00:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it looks like you are going no where fast with this guy ,,,, It would appear that you are still warm and have a pulse ,,,, He's using you as a back up or fail safe ,,,, But he is using you ,,,, How do you like it ?,,,,
This guy is by far not the only fish in the pond ,,,, Don't put your life on hold for anyone ,,,, Go fishing and find some one that's fun and exciting to be around ,,,, They sometimes come trouble and problem free and won't use you as a spare tire ,,,,
2007-05-30 08:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have become his comfort zone. If you feel it's unfair to you then let him know. tell him you are his friend but your not his door mat. If he wants to be your friend then treat you with respect and find someone who treats you like a princess then when he needs you you won't be on the court to be the rebound girl any more.
2007-05-30 08:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by shera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your own fault. You keep letting him treat you like this.
The next time he tries to do this, let him know that you have a problem with it... Otherwise you're just the 'friend with benefits' or 'rebound girl'. He doesn't know that you're NOT okay with it unless you tell him. Let him know your feelings and what YOU want and take it from there.
2007-05-30 07:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG chic you should not let him use you like that!! That is all he is doing is using you . He would rather be with you than to ever be without... Next time he dumps you then tries to come back tell him to kiss your *** and that you don't need him. Tell him he is so yesterdays trash.
2007-05-30 07:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break the cycle. Seems that the constant to the cycle is you. You hold the key to stopping it. What if he came back and you were not there or his place was filled?
2007-05-30 07:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DONT GO BACK TO HIM.. you already know his game, so why are you allowing him to play you??? Let his loser self go and get yourself someone that cares ABOUT YOU not what you can do for him..... Forget about him, pick yourself up, go to the gym, workout, get your studies straight, work, earn some money, get yourself independent and kick his ***!!! and find someone worth while!!
2007-05-30 07:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO NOT, I repeat "DO NOT" take him back! He is using you! There is probably some other guy just waiting to ask you out but hasn't because this jerk is always in the picture.
2007-05-30 07:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Miki S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that's not cool, and have some more respect for yourself. You deserve better than that. You're not there to be his playtoy whenever he wants, that's unfair to you.
2007-05-30 07:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzyhamster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just chuck him and get a life. You are worth more than that. Stop feeling sorry for the jerk.
2007-05-30 07:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by blind_chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋